Planning A Trip? Here’s where to start your research

I spend so many hours researching my travel, and I do this because I think it’s fun. I understand it may be overwhelming for some and I often get asked: where do I start. So I thought I’d share a few of my favorite places to start. I usually end up down a rabbit hole and revisit my many Google Maps stars, but outside of that, here’s where I start.

Atlas Obscura

I love this site and corresponding books because it helps me find hidden gems that aren’t always at the top of the Trip Advisor lists. I love exploring the attractions you can’t find anywhere else in the world. Plus the site is easy to use and find what you need based on destination.

Google Maps

I often will just zoom into a location and wander around. I click on restaurants, lodging, museums, bars, parks and so many different types of listings because Google displays different highlights depending on what you are currently looking at. 

Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube

I use common hashtags for those destinations, and find local influencers in that city or country and dig around their recent posts, videos, and websites. You’ll also find hugely popular influencers who have only visited a location once or twice and those are great places to look as well.

It’s a common trend to gatekeep exact locations of amazing places lately for many reasons. If the influencer doesn’t post the location, don’t ask them, check the comments to see if someone else has already answered that question and if not, just move on.

Visitors Bureaus

While you’ll get mostly the touristy locations and maybe not the most hidden gems, you’ll likely use these to gut check and make sure you haven’t missed any of the major stops.

Always Be Planning

Because I’m always keeping an eye open for good spots and mark them in my Google Map with stars and flags, I can spend much less time planning each of my trips because I’ve already got a head start.

Where do you like to find good travel ideas?

What To Research About Your Destination

The hours of work that go into researching your vacation can be many, and it’s easy to forget something when you’re doing it in hour-long chunks late at night after work each night. I keep a list of things to investigate for each location I plan to visit. Not all of them are relevant but it’s nice to have.

Population

Density matters to me. Is this going to feel like Manhattan or White Fish, Montana? While population isn’t a direct indicator, it’s certainly a correlation. Keep in mind that some places with similar populations will  feel wildly different as far as how urban it is. For example San Francisco and Columbus, Ohio have similar populations, but San Francisco feels much more urban and dense than Columbus. It’s truly about the vibe to me, but population gives me a good idea of what I’m getting into.

COVID-19 Cases, Deaths, and Vaccine Rates

Lately this has been a significant deciding factor of if I visit a place. I’m watching these numbers (thanks google and New York Times) at least weekly for the locales I’m considering in the next year or two. You can sort by country, state and even county.

Visa Requirements

As a United States citizen, we are permitted to visit many countries without a visa at all. But there are a few that require some documentation prior to your arrival. Sometimes you can do it when you get there and it’s an immediate approval, but others, you need to do many months in advance and wait for a board to review it before you can book flights.

Public Transportation and Traffic

Investigating public transit maps can help you determine where you want to stay and how you’ll get aroud. I also download offline maps of my entire destination so I can navigate around without using data.

Calls, Texts and Data

Each phone service provider is different, but I’m a big fan of Google Fi. You are charged $10 per gig of data you use anywhere in the world. Texts are always free and calls are 20 cents a minute outside of North America. I don’t have to worry about massive cycle fees or getting new sim cards and it’s saved me many headaches.

Visitors Bureaus and Social Media

Visitors bureaus are always a good source of information catered just to us tourists. Local bloggers and Instagramers are also an excellent source for the latest hot spots. Almost every community has a local magazine or publication that highlights new restaurant openings or fun hidden gems. You’ll also find what events are going on in the community while you’re there, either to attend or avoid.

If you want my full list of things I research before a trip, just reach out.

Things In My Suitcase That Just Make Sense

Okay, I’ll admit. I’m addicted to TikTok. But only as a lurker. I’ve never made a video and I don’t intend to, but there are some cute prompts that come up so I thought I’d write it in a post instead of a video. So here are things in my suitcase that just make sense.

A dry bag. Use it for a wet swimsuit, muddy boots, or dirty laundry, but it’s always nice to have.

A solar power bank. You may not always have access to an outlet but as long as you have light (natural or artificial), you will be able to charge your devices. I have a $30 one that once fully charged itself can charge my phone three times. It’s also perfect for outdoor adventures.

Water bottle. This one is obvious but I just had a conversation with someone who was complaining about the prices of bottles of water at airports and I was the first person to tell him to bring a reusable bottle from home. It has to be empty to get through security but fill it at a drinking fountain near your gate. I bring a water bottle even on road trips. We swap to a water bladder that holds 3 liters for hiking trips. 

Dry soap. Similar in size to Listerine strips, you can get dry sheets of soap for hand washing, laundry, etc. Doesn’t need to go in your liquids bag and is super lightweight. I also use non-liquid hair products. My favorites are Gemz, but I also have bar shampoo and conditioners that I bring for certain trips. 

Vaccine card. It’s now going to be a staple along with your ID. Many restaurants and other places are requiring it so it’s better to have it tucked away in a pocket than in a drawer at home. Get a plastic cover for it do it doesn’t get destroyed. And I’m not sure if this is totally legal or not, but I thought I lost mine. You know when you put something somewhere for safe keeping and then hide it from yourself? So I called the location I got my vaccine from and they were able to mail me a new one. Well, of course the day the new ones cam in the mail, I found the old ones. So now I have two. It’ll be nice to have a back up if I ever need it.

Packing cubes. Some people get compression cubes and claim it saves them space. I’m all for that, but my reason for packing cubes is organization. It’s so much easier to find what you need when it’s organized. For certain trips I organize each cube with complete outfits, and for others, I organize by category (tops in one, socks in another). I also have more than a dozen small fabric zipper bags that I use to organize my electronics, medicine, toiletries, etc. I cannot live without them.

Nintendo Switch. Lately, my partner has been bringing along his Switch and I’m not mad about it. It’s nice to be able to play games together on the plane.

Bonus: I no longer bring with me

A pen. We used to recommend bringing a pen to fill out customs papers on international flights but now there is an app called Mobile Passport Control where you can fill it out digitally. Plus, there is a separate line for people using the app that goes way faster!

Are there any hidden gems you always bring?

What I Look for in an Airbnb

There are so many options for lodging on your trip: resorts, hotels, hostels, guesthouses, bed and breakfasts, cabins, campsites, friends houses, and so much more. But one of my favorites is Airbnb. There are a few other vacation rental companies like VRBO (pronounced VERB-oh), but Airbnb reigns supreme in my book. Here are the things I look for to find the best ones around the globe.

Uniqueness

Airbnb often sends emails with lists of interesting options. I always skim through it and save listings that look neat, even if I don’t have a trip planned to that destination any time soon. You can book treehouses, underground hobbit holes, shipping containers, train cars, grain silos, houseboats, tiny houses, and forts. I’ve even stayed in this boat, this rotating house, and an artist commune. I’ll take one of these weird spots over a generic chain hotel any day!

Cancellation Flexibility

Especially with COVID-19 changing our plans daily, it’s nice to have peace of mind that you can cancel or change your lodging if you need to. Almost all listings allow changes within 48 hours of booking, but I prefer the ones that allow me to make changes for free up until 48 hours before check in. 

Self Check In

Some people want a tour of the home when they arrive and that’s lovely, but I personally do not need to be shown around. I had one woman show me every light switch in the home. I expect that the hosts leave detailed written instructions if something isn’t obvious, but I’ve been perfectly fine operating appliances in a foreign language and connecting myself to wifi without the assistance of the homeowner. Self check in via a lock box or door code can give you a little more flexibility to arrive on your own time. If you need to meet the host, you often have to arrange a time to meet up. Sometimes there is a good pit stop on your way in, or dinner takes longer than you think and I would hate to be late for check in.

Beds for Everyone

Bedrooms and beds can be a little misleading in listings. Some will say they sleep five but it’s really only a one bedroom with a queen bed, plus one person on a sofa and two on an air mattress. You should take into account your group dynamics and make sure you scour the photos for all of the beds you’ll need. I’ve seen some listings that have four pairs of full bunk beds and will say that it sleeps 16. In what world?! I’m not running a summer camp over here. I also accidentally rented a place in New Orleans where you had to walk through the second bedroom to get to the third. Luckily we were all close, but that could have been awkward.

Kitchen

This may depend on your needs. Is a microwave and a mini fridge okay for your trip or do you need a full chef’s set up? Don’t make assumptions about what is available to you.

Wifi

Speaking of assumptions… I once didn’t check the filter for wifi and accidentally booked a place with no internet. The listing didn’t mention that it was purposefully an off-grid retreat and I just missed that detail. We were in the middle of nowhere and there were other things wrong with the listing so we ended up bailing and staying at a nearby hotel, but the lack of wifi was my own fault.

Heating and Air Conditioning

You might also be surprised that some places don’t have heating or air conditioning. They simply don’t need it most of the time. The Pacific Northwest for example rarely needs AC, but lately this summer, they have been experiencing extreme heat waves that could make your trip a lot less enjoyable if you’re sweating through your pajamas each night. The same is true for tropical locales and heat. My little apartment in San Francisco had a six by eight inch space heater for the whole place. We just didn’t need it 95% of the time. However if you need those things or are visiting during one of those rare times when you do need it, you should filter for that. Many more rural or rustic listings also won’t have these luxuries.

Parking/Public Transit

If you are driving at all, you’ll want to investigate the parking situation. I would hate for you to arrive only to discover that you have to pay four Euros per hour for street parking. On the other hand, if you are planning on taking public transportation to restaurants and museums but you find that you are 20 minutes from the nearest train station, you may be shelling out big for Lyft or cab rides. 

I have so many fun Airbnbs saved and would love to help you find the next perfect home base for your trip.

You Should Camp This Summer

As a child, we exclusively camped for our vacations. With more than three decades of experience, I still enjoy spending time outdoors both backpacking and car camping. But I’m also realizing that not everyone has lots of childhood memories in a tent, or they think it’s not for them for a myriad of reasons. So here is my best sell for why you should consider camping, and a few tips to make it more enjoyable.

Why Camping?

I’m a city girl at heart and feel most at home in the busiest of urban escapes, but there is something about being surrounded by green and blue that calms me.

There is actual science that proves being in nature can lead to better health including reduced stress, better eyesight and decreased blood pressure.

The museums and breweries will be there when you get back, but the spring snow melt, summer blooms, and fall foliage will not last forever.

You don’t even have to go completely off grid if you’d rather stay in touch and post your beautiful new photos on Instagram.

Exploring our national parks and hiking the thousands of state parks around the country and even the world can be an experience like no other. 

Here’s how to make it less uncomfortable and more fun.

Plan ahead

There are so many things to think about when planning a regular vacation, and planning to camp can double the number of things on your list to research. You’ll need to choose an exciting destination and find a place to stay, but also research weather more scrupulously, what wildlife you might encounter and how to behave near them, as well as all of the gear and equipment you’ll need.

I always start with where I want to visit, who wants to come with me, how long we have to enjoy the place, how we’ll get around (if we’re flying and renting a car, or driving there), what hikes we want to do, what are the rules and restrictions in those areas and where we want to stay, before starting any packing lists or gear shopping. 

Where to Camp

Normally, I’d say start small and stay close to home, but camping isn’t easy so in order to make all of the work worth it, I say go big. Maybe don’t plan to hike Mount Whitney as your first trip, but somewhere you’ve always seen photos of on Instagram or somewhere a friend just went that looked incredible. If you’re from the Midwest, exploring the Pacific Northwest can be a doable but magical experience. You might also enjoy Southern Utah or Northern California. There are beautiful hidden gems around the United States and even more around the world! Small issue lugging gear with you but if you find this becomes a hobby of yours, go for it!

Once you have some of the other big things figured out, you can find an excellent campsite. You can choose a traditional campground which will likely have you just a few feet from other groups, but may offer amenities like a camp store, a pool, electricity, flush bathrooms, showers and more. They are typically $15 - $100 per site around the country depending on what you need. We’re staying at Canyon Campground in Yellowstone National Park in September and I believe it was $30 per night.

Another option is Hipcamp which is like Airbnb but for property individuals can rent to you overnight. Our most recent Hipcamp was in Lucas, Ohio, and this guy had 13 acres and we could just pick a spot and enjoy. He had a stocked pond for fishing, string lights, picnic tables and fire pits for us too.

There also may be places to camp along major hikes. Not formal campgrounds, but you are permitted to set up a tent for a night or two, like near Gilmore Lake in Desolation Wilderness near Mount Tallac and Lake Tahoe. Be sure to research where exactly you are permitted to camp because there are usually strict rules and even permits may be required.

Harvest Hosts is another option for RVers looking to park for the night where you stay at the vineyard for free with purchase of their wine.

And the last option is called boondocking, or just sleeping in random parking lots or parks. As long as it’s public land, you should be okay, but it’s not legal in every state and can be one of the less safe options. On the plus side, it’s always free. In some regions, it is perfectly normal and encouraged. In Sedona, AZ, my friend and I rented camping equipment off of Airbnb and then camped along the side of the road on Bureau of Land Management property. The views were incredible and we were all alone out there under the stars.

Who to Camp With

If you’re new or nervous about camping, don’t drag your diva friend along. Invite a more experienced friend who can help you navigate all the details of food and fire safety, how to get rid of bugs and more. Camping alone can be fun if you’re a pro, but I find that my sweet spot is 2-6 people. Your group will have plenty of hands to help set up your tent, prepare meals, and stoke the fire, but won’t be too loud or overwhelming so you can still enjoy the quiet of the outdoors.

How Long to Camp

There is too much work involved in setting up a comfy campsite to do it for just one night in my opinion. On the other hand, if you aren’t an experienced camper or have the best gear, two weeks in a sleeping bag may not be the most fun either.

I love camping for a long weekend or 2-4 nights. I find that I have plenty of hammock time to read my book and binge on s’more creations, but my back doesn’t start hurting, nor am I eaten alive by bugs and desperately craving a shower.

How to Get to Campsites

Depending on how far away the destination is, you may want to fly, then rent a car when you arrive. You will most definitely need a car to get to the campsite then to any hikes you want to add in. Plus, having a car means you have some safety in case of curious animals or bad weather, and power to charge up if you don’t have a solar charger for any devices.

What Activities to Do While Camping

Firstly, you likely need to spend a couple hours setting up upon arrival and tearing down the day you leave. But other than preparing meals and reapplying bug spray and sunscreen, you will have plenty of time to read a book, play a game board, card or yard game, fish, or hike.

The best place to start your hike research is All Trails. However, once you narrow it down, you may look for a regional website that has even more details about your destination. 

What To Know Before You Camp

There will always be common standards like Leave No Trace, but there may be even more regulations depending on where you end up camping.

During wildfire season out west, you may not be permitted to make a campfire at all, propane stoves only. You may not be allowed to bring in firewood from out of state, fish without a license, pick flowers as souvenirs, dig holes for pooping, or bring your pets. You may also check for any warnings about harmful algae blooms in the drinking water, flash flood watches, or insect swarms. Knowing what to expect and planning ahead can help make this whole thing way more fun.

Often weather apps look at the weather in the nearest metro. Be sure to check the weather of the exact location you’ll be camping in. Elevation can mean more than 20 degrees different than you expect or there could be rain just in the valley but not on the mountain top.

You should also have an awareness of what kind of wildlife lives where you’ll be. Knowing the difference between a grizzly bear and a black bear can be key since they require you to react to their presence differently. It’s always a good idea to keep food and anything smelly at all including the clothes you cooked and ate in away from where you’ll be sleeping. Even small varmints can be a nuisance so it’s best to use a bear canister and maybe even hang it from the trees 100 meters from your sleeping spot.

What Gear is Needed for Camping

Throughout your research you’ll likely think of things you’d like to bring. Make a packing list so you don’t forget the many things you’ll need to bring along. But don’t feel like you need to spend thousands of dollars on top-quality gear just to explore if you enjoy camping or for a few short trips. You have options.

The first option is to borrow from friends. Of course it’s more fun to camp with friends and I did say you should invite your experienced camper friends with you on your first couple trips, but they likely have tons of gear you can borrow, or know other friends who can share equipment. With a couple exceptions, I have gear to support up to 4 people camping and the things I don’t have for a fourth person, they can likely find an easy substitute from what they already have at home.

The second option is to rent. Outdoor gear stores like REI and other local outfitters offer used equipment for as little as $2 per item per night. This will likely cost you upwards of $100 to rent everything you need, but if you just want to try it once, or haven’t quite built up all of the gear you need, it’s certainly a great option. We don’t own a bear canister or a stove believe it or not, and usually just rent when we need those things.

And last but not least, buy second hand. Camping equipment will get dirty and scuffed and scratched. Might as well get a deal on some pre-loved items instead of buying new. REI Garage Sales, Craigslist and Facebook Marketplace are great options to start your search.

For a full list of camping, backpacking, and hiking gear, check out this post.

My summer and fall of this year are already booked up with camping and other travel, but I’d love to go camping with you next summer!

Pack With Me: Camping, Hiking, Backpacking

Camping, hiking, and backpacking can be so much fun, but it’s even better when you have luxury gear and don’t forget the important stuff. Here’s everything I bring with me when I’m camping for more than a couple nights, hiking for more than 5 miles, or backpacking any amount.

Sleeping

• Tent: We have an ultralight two-person we like for backpacking, and a larger 4-person tent for car camping. Good tents usually come with a footprint, but you can use a tarp underneath your tent if necessary. Ideally your tent also has a rain fly just in case it rains in the middle of the night or you expect there to be a lot of dew. (REI)

• Pillow: If we are backpacking we have small inflatable pillows, but if we are car camping, we usually just bring the pillows from our bed at home.

• Sleeping bag: If you are car camping feel free to bring bedding from home. But you’ll have a much better experience with a high quality sleeping bag. We have bags that can keep us warm in 15 degree temperatures. Some people even use a liner inside their bag to stay warm when they need it. When we get too warm during the night we just unzip and stick a leg out. You want one that is somewhat form fitting to your body because any extra space is room for cold air. I got one especially made for women’s shapes and my partner got one made for his height. We love our down sleeping bags so much! (Marmot)

• Sleeping pad: For extra comfort and warmth, you can also use a pad between your sleeping bag and the tent floor. You can get one that folds or rolls up or an inflatable one. (REI)

• Sleeping cot: We recently added cots to our car camping setup. Way better than an air mattress! We don’t bring them for backpacking because they are about as heavy as folding camp chairs. Not ideal when we’re trying to keep our weight to 30 pounds total including water. (REI)

Eating and Drinking

• Bladder: We use both bottles and bladders for our camping trips. We have a water filter if we know there is going to be somewhat potable water nearby like a flowing stream, but we also may just bring in all the water we intend to consume during the trip. Always overestimate what you’ll need. Always.

• Water filter: There are many ways to ensure you are drinking clean water throughout your camping trip. We personally like an easy filter but are exploring other options as well. 

• Paper towels: it’s a little wasteful, but they are an easy option for cleaning up messes on gear to prevent attracting bugs and animals.

• Trash bags: Something you can hang from a clothesline to keep animals away. Remember to Leave No Trace.

• Cookware: Planning out your meals will help you determine what you need to bring as far as cooking utensils, pots and pans, etc. There are specialty camp versions of everything, or you may decide not to bring anything but a mountain pie maker and a cast iron skillet to cook over a fire. Don’t forget marshmallow sticks!

• Serveware: I like reusables but cardboard or bamboo disposables are fine in a pinch. Be sure they don’t have any sort of coating on them if you intend to throw them in the campfire though. 

• Cleaning supplies: I usually use biodegradable soap and paper towels.

• Animal protection: This can be a bear canister, a bag with rope to hang from a tree branch or other option. You don’t want to leave food in a cooler or out in any way.

• Cooler: To keep food and drinks cold. I prefer large ice packs so when they melt my items aren’t floating in water, but ice is always an easy option. I try to keep cheese and other small items in a separate cooler with ice packs and leave the cooler for things like milk and beer since they won’t get soggy.

Wearing

For as much of my clothing as possible, I try to bring natural fibers like wool and cotton. I do also have some more technical clothing as well that helps wick sweat and dew from me.

• Bottoms: I almost never wear jeans because they don’t dry quickly so hiking pants and leggings for me, but some people prefer shorts. I usually bring one per day. I’ve been burned before (falling into the river while kayaking) and have needed more than one outfit in a day, but you can also wear the same thing more than one day. No one cares what you look like while camping. (Prana, Patagonia, Girlfriend Collective)

• Tops: Regardless of the temperature, I always bring tank tops, short sleeves and long sleeves so I can layer as necessary as the temperatures change throughout the day and night. I wear these items over and over unless I sweat excessively. (REI, Patagonia)

• Pajamas: changing into clean pajamas before you slip into your sleeping bag can help keep it clean since it’s so hard to launder.

• Underthings: sports bras, underwear, socks, etc. I bring just a few sports bras and wear them inside out the second time. I always pack more underwear than I need. Fresh underwear is the best feeling when the rest of you feels a little dirty out in the woods somewhere. I usually only bring enough socks for the days I’m hiking. I wear dirty socks inside out with my sandals around the fire in the evenings. (SmartWool)

• Swim suit: I almost always bring it even if there is no pool. You may find a lake, pond or river you just can’t resist.

• Rain gear: It’s important to bring a waterPROOF jacket, not a water RESISTANT one. One with a hood is best. You can also get waterproof pants as well, but it’s not necessary unless you anticipate being wet and cold for a long time like in Iceland or during a winter hike. (Patagonia, Columbia)

• Gloves: Speaking of winter, you may decide to bring warm gloves with you as well. If you’re seeing below 40 degrees, you may also consider a winter coat, scarves, and other accoutrement like crampons.

• Hat: this could be something warm for winter or a baseball cap for warmer weather. I hear bucket hats are in lately, but I just can’t with some 90s trends.

• Hiking shoes or boots: Depending on your needs, you may decide to go with a more lightweight hiking shoe or a more sturdy boot, but both should be waterproof when possible. (Merrell, Ariat)

• Sandals: I like thick velcro ones I can adjust as my feet swell throughout the day. I can use them as water shoes and campfire shoes, and even short, flat hikes in them if I need to. (Teva, Toms are good alternatives if you don’t plan on using them for water)

• Sunglasses: But don’t bring your fancy ones in case they get dirty, broken or lost.

Relaxing

• Hammock: Laying in a hammock is one of the best ways to chill out. Be sure to pack your straps and stand if you don’t anticipate finding good trees for it. (ENO, Kammok)

• Camp chairs: Any folding camp chairs will do, but there are awesome anti-gravity ones that will really enhance your experience.

• Games: I always bring a deck of cards for the size and flexibility, but board games that can be played on a picnic table or that don’t have small pieces that could get lost in the grass or cards that can blow away in the wind are great as well. If you have room in your car, you can also bring yard games like corn hole, bocce, can jam and others.

• Binoculars: If you want to peep some birds or animals from afar, binoculars are a fun addition to your list

• Firewood: Make sure it’s seasoned and dry. You’ll want large logs and small kindling as well as a lighter and paper and cardboard scraps.

Safety

• Sunscreen: Sun protection is no joke. I’m a bit of a crazy person about making sure I apply it thoroughly and reapply regularly. We were just at a cabin with friends and I was the only one who didn’t get burned. I prefer 50 SPF mineral sunscreen in lotion form, but anything is better than nothing. Aerosols and chemical sunscreens aren’t great for the environment (if it doesn’t say mineral on the label, it’s chemical). Many places like Hawaii and Australia are even banning chemical sunscreens because of the damage they can do to reefs and ocean life.

• Bug spray: Even if you don’t think you need it, bring it anyway. You can also bring citronella candles and other bug deterrents but spray is often the easiest and most reliable.

• Whistle: If you get lost or need help, a whistle may be louder and use less energy than your own voice. 

• Emergency blankets: These small foil blankets you often see marathoners wearing after a race can help keep you warm. Hand warmers are also a nice thing to pack if you expect any chilly weather.

• Band aids: My partner loves to prevent blisters with bandages like Moleskin, but band aids are still helpful for small cuts. You should also have an Ace bandage and a healthy first aid kit with a variety of common items like allergy pills, ibuprofen, Tums, and antiseptic.

• Hand sanitizer and soap: We have biodegradable soap we use for everything and washing your hands with soap and water is always the better option, but in a pinch hand sanitizer will do.

• Hand crank radio: I have this hand crank-powered radio and flashlight device that I would use in an emergency, it’s the size of a can of soda and if my phone and headlamp died, I could use it to listen to music and get some light.

• Toilet paper: Just in case your campground runs out in the middle of the night, or if you are primitive camping. You should also consider a portable loo or double doodie bags if you need to pack out your personal waste.

• Jumper cables: And generally a car safety kit. You may need to turn the headlights on for a bit or charge phones so it’s best to not get stranded with a dead battery and no cell service.

• Knife: Many people bring a knife or ax as well for odds and ends set up and firewood management.

Miscellaneous

• Backpack, day pack: Obviously if you’re backpacking you’ll need something to carry everything. You can mostly get away with a 30-40 liter pack for most short trips. But it’s also nice to have a smaller day pack that’s only 10-15 liters for hiking and exploring. (Osprey, Mountain Hardwear)

• Hair ties: no one wants you to accidentally light your hair on fire; pull it back. Rock a braid or top knot.

• Headlamps: It’s nice to have a lantern or flashlight as well, but to keep the number of items we need to bring low, we just bring headlamps. The brightness and angle can be adjusted on the ones we have. (Black Diamond)

• Towel or sarong: We have a small hand town made of microfiber as well as a thin sarong-style blanket we can use as a towel as well. Again, if we are car camping, we just bring beach towels from home.

• Deodorant and other toiletries: I like to keep a fragrance-free set of toiletries for camping and outdoor trips. I’m not bringing perfume to attract bees my way, or anything of the sort. My camping toiletries are bare bones and I may not even bring a hair brush. My fingers work just fine for my hair for the most part. Toothbrush and paste, deodorant, facial cleansing wipes. I like using these wipes just before bed once I’m already in my tent to get all the bug spray and sunscreen off. You may need to bring additional sanitary items if for example you need to stick your dirty fingers in your eyes to remove your contacts. You do you.

• Solar charger: I have a small hand held solar charger for my devices. It’s not a battery so it only charges when it’s in direct bright sunlight, but I can usually make sure all my devices are charged by sunset and make it through the night just fine. Airplane mode helps too if you need it. I also have been bringing a power bank lately for car camping trips. Definitely leaving that heavy item at home for backpacking though.

• Clothesline or rope: to hang food, trash, wet clothes, etc.

• Bags: I bring dry bags to keep wet things separate from dry things, ziplock bags for period products or toilet paper I can’t dispose of immediately, and beeswax and reusable baggies for leftover food and other items I want to keep covered.

• Corkscrew: I will not be caught with a bottle of wine I can’t open. Usually I try to bring only screw tops or other options, but a good one to have just in case. 

• Trekking poles: Great for elevation gain and icy spots along the trails. They can also be used as poles in some tent/tarp combos in a pinch. (Black Diamond)

• Downloaded offline maps: Download offline Google Maps to your phone so even if you don’t have cell service you can still navigate home.

• If you know you’re staying somewhere that is known for having a bunch of bugs, I recommend a mosquito head net. It’s basically a drawstring bag that you can wear over a wide brimmed hat to keep the bugs at least out of your face.

• Duct tape: Because it can fix everything including holes in your tent.

• Cash: Some parks and campgrounds only accept cash. Plus it’s nice to have for emergency vending machines or tipping anyone who assists you during your trip.

I know that’s a lot. I’m happy to help you pack or plan your next camping trip. I promise it’s a blast, even if it’s a little extra work!

City Brag: 24 Things to Do in Pittsburgh, PA

As the largest metro near my partner’s hometown, I’ve spent a decent amount of time in Pittsburgh. It’s a charming little town with a few skyscrapers and universities, but lots of character and grit. If you’re heading there soon, here are my favorite things to do, see, eat, and drink in Steel City.

1. Let the kiddos explore the Carnegie Science Center.

2. See a Pittsburgh Pirates baseball game at PNC Park or cheer on the Pittsburgh Steelers football team at Heinz Field.

3. Make pop art at the Andy Warhol Museum.

4. Enjoy a picnic at Point State Park Fountain.

5. Feast simply at Meat and Potatoes.

6. Take in the views from the Sienna Mercato rooftop bar.

7. Get the meat sweats at Emporio: a Meatball Joint.

8. Wander north on Penn Avenue to explore the markets and shops.

9. Sip a flight at Wigle Whiskey Distillery.

10. Taste what Maggie’s Farm Rum Distillery has to offer.

11. Be irreverent at The Church Brew Works.

12. Grab a drink at Arsenal Cider House.

13. Try a new varietal at Engine House No. 25 Wines Tasting Room.

14. Binge on beer at Burgh’ers Brewing Lawrenceville or one of the many breweries in the city.

15. Indulge in a lobster roll at Merchant Oyster Co.

16. Imbibe a fancy cocktail at Industry Public House.

17. Win a board game at Phantom in the Attic.

18. Rekindle your love of learning at the Carnegie Museum of Natural History and Carnegie Museum of Art.

19. Explore around Carnegie Mellon University.

20. Stop and smell the roses at the Phipps Conservatory and Botanical Gardens.

21. Step back in time at The Frick Pittsburgh.

22. Ride up the mountain in the Monongahela or Duquesne Inclines.

23. See a show at The Rex Theater.

24. Ride a coaster at Kennywood.

If you want a customized list for your crew, you know where to find me.

How to Get the Most Out of Wine Country

Visiting Napa, Tuscany, or Bordeaux is on many people’s bucket list, and for good reason. Even if you don’t drink, the rolling vineyard hills are a beautiful view and can be a calming atmosphere. But just booking a flight to California, Italy, or France may not be the right move without a little planning.

In my planning process, I take into account who is visiting, how much they know about wine, what wine they prefer, timing, distance, and so much more.

What to Know Before Visit Wine Country

Take stock of what you know about wine, the region, and tasting in general. There are a few industry tips that will make your experience more enjoyable. Generally, winemakers and sommeliers are kind and enthusiastic teachers, but you should go to a smaller place early in the day to ensure they have the time to spend with you. 

To people who haven’t been there, saying you just visited Epernay or the Loire Valley may sound like the most pretentious thing ever. But the beauty of wine is that what you like and dislike is really up to you. We all have unique palettes and while some may be snooty about it, you should come in with an open mind and respect that we all taste and enjoy differently.

I almost never taste what the tasting notes for each glass say I should experience. That’s perfectly fine. That doesn’t mean I’m wrong or that I don’t know much about wine. Try not to yuck others’ yum. Something I’m still working on myself.

Who Should Visit Wine Country

Everyone! Just kidding. Children can make the occasion not as relaxing for everyone and often aren’t permitted in some tasting rooms so be sure to check their policies before bringing the little ones along. Additionally, those grumps who are adamant that they don’t like wine (they just haven’t found the right wine yet) may bring the mood down. However, they do make excellent designated drivers if they have a good attitude about it. 

How to Get Around Wine Country

We always assume we’ll pace ourselves and will be fine to drive, but know that police assume the opposite and will assume you don’t know where your limit is. They patrol those areas regularly in order to keep the roads as safe as possible. I recommend hiring a professional driver or having a designated driver who will stick to one or two tastes all day. Depending on the size of your group, you may hire a sprinter van or just jump in a friend’s Prius like we did so many times. There are tour busses who will coordinate your whole day if you are willing to give up control and the opportunity to visit smaller operations.

When to Visit Wineries

Some regions are open year round while others are open only during growing and harvest season. Depending on the hemisphere and region, that could mean summer/fall or winter/spring. For example, Napa is gorgeous in September since you’ll be just prior to most of the harvest season and this year’s grapes will still be on the vine.

Many wineries are only open on the weekends, but you may find that they are more crowded than weekdays. Make sure to confirm the days of the week for each location and don’t make any assumptions. I’ve also been to plenty of tasting rooms that are only open when the owners feel like it or have availability. Google Maps isn’t always the most reliable source. I double check their website, social media, and depending on how flexible my plans are, may even call.

Most wineries and tastings are open midday to dinner time. This can throw some people off who intend to rage after hours. I usually make it an all day affair arriving at our first stop right when they open and closing down our last stop. Therefore I, as the crazy researcher I am, make a list of the open hours for each of the wineries I’d like to visit and note which ones are open earliest and latest. There are some that are open later if they have restaurants attached to them. But be careful because the restaurant may be the only part that is open and you may have to purchase bottles or glasses instead of a tasting. 

How to Choose Which Wineries to Visit

In addition to the opening hours, you’ll want to order your stops by distance as well. Advance planning can help prevent trekking from Geyserville to Helena to Healdsburg to Sonoma in one day. I like to choose a smaller region and drive just a few miles between stops. It keeps the energy up and we get to spend most of our time drinking instead of driving. 

Based on what the group enjoys drinking, I also choose wineries that specialize in those varietals or that offer a wide range of varietals that will serve our group. For example, I may take my girlfriends to a sparkling wine specialist, my mom and mother-in-law to a sweet wine place, and my partner to a romantic red wine tasting room.

What to Wear Wine Tasting

Visiting a winery or tasting room usually merits garden or semi-formal attire. While some may get away with jeans or shorts, a sundress and a button-down are safe options. Plus you know you’ll be taking photos at these beautiful venues that are often the backdrop for weddings. I’d wear comfortable shoes knowing you may get a little tipsy, but if you insist on wearing heels, choose wedges since you may be wandering the rows of grapes. 

How Much Does It Cost to Drink in Wine Country

Many wineries offer complimentary tastings. Some offer a flight with a small fee, but may waive that with the purchase of a bottle or two. Others do charge a fee for tastings. In all cases you should remember to tip your server.

How to Drink in Wine Country

First of all, pace yourself. You’ll be tasting all day and you may consume more than you think if you do dozens of half-ounce pours.

One fun thing I like to do is compare vintages (years) of the same varietal or blend. You’ll likely notice incredible differences between the two or even three tastings. 

Be open-minded about what you taste. You’ll likely have the opportunity to try some varietals you haven’t heard of. Take the bartender’s recommendation but then be honest about what you thought so they can make a better recommendation next. 

You’ll usually taste driest to sweetest. There is certainly a formal and proper way to taste, but taking note of the color by holding it up to a white background is a good first step for the casual drinker. Then swirl the glass and stick your whole nose in the glass to smell it. Then take a small sip to taste the wine in the front of your mouth. A second sip can be swooshed around in your mouth, and then enjoy as you please. Regardless, don’t feel judged or like you are doing anything wrong when you taste. Really, the only thing people will give you funny looks for is taking your tasting like a shot. Don’t do that. 

If you have questions about visiting wine country in any part of the world, I’m happy to share what I know or how I research my own trips.

Car Rental Alternatives: Turo, Getaround, ZipCar

Have you tried booking a rental car lately? You may have found that not only are prices significantly higher than you have seen previously, some rental agencies may be completely sold out. 

Why? Because in order to survive the pandemic, many of the traditional car rental companies sold some of their fleet to stay in business. And while they are likely working on buying back some of those numbers, they are going to play it safe and wait until demand warrants it, which is likely seasonal and slow to match the recovery or the travel industry.

So if you’re in a bind and still need a rental car, there are a few alternatives you can investigate.

Turo

What is it:

The world’s largest peer-to-peer car sharing platform. Think Airbnb for vehicles instead of homes. You can shop by location, date and time, make and model, electric, pet-friendly, luxury, etc. They have Teslas and Maseratis as well as minivans and trucks listed. Each vehicle has its own profile with images, what kind of fuel it takes, how many doors and all sorts of other details including the location and how to pick it up or get it delivered.

Regions:

It’s am American company but they are in cities across America, Canada and United Kingdom.

Cost:

Most cars are about $30 - $40 per day but I’ve seen them as cheap as $20. They also have insane vehicles for $250+ per day. Some insurance and 24/7 roadside assistance is included, but additional insurance can be added but you should check your personal auto insurance to know if it would cover you in this situation.

Preparation:

Just like Airbnb, you have to have an account, and the more reviews you have on your profile, the more appealing a renter. Sign up using your driver’s license, pick a car, chat with the owner, pick it up or get it delivered, then off you go.

Getaround

What is it:

Just like Turo, it’s an American peer-to-peer car sharing platform. It’s a little smaller, but works if you can’t find anything on Turo. Getaround is nice because you can rent by the hour if necessary, but they have much fewer options and almost no luxury upgrades. However, one awesome perk of Getaround is that you can unlock the vehicle with the Getaround app instead of having to meet the owner.

Regions:

Arizona, California, Colorado, Connecticut, D.C., Florida, Georgia, Illinois, Massachusetts, New Jersey, New York, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, Texas, Virginia, Washington, and Wisconsin

Cost:

Most cars are $50 - $60 per day. Some low key insurance is included but you can add on additional coverage if necessary.

Preparation:

Same as Turo: sign up with your driver’s license, pick your car and head out.

ZipCar

What is it:

ZipCar,owned by Avis Budget Group, is a car rental service that has hubs all over your city. They may have three cars in your apartment parking garage, three cars in your work parking garage, three cars in your local grocery store parking lot. So instead of going to the airport or a larger community hub, you can usually find a ZipCar within a couple blocks of your urban location. Most of these cars are your standard rentals though, nothing luxurious or interesting.

Regions:

Most major metros in the United States, Canada, Costa Rica, Iceland, Taiwan, Turkey, and United Kingdom

Cost:

$78+ per day, but there are insurance add-ons as well.

Preparation:

Similar to Turo and Getaround, sign up with your driver’s license, choose a location/car and take off. You can also use the ZipCar app to unlock the vehicle so no need to meet anyone at a desk or office.

I have used all three and often find that if I can’t score a deal with a traditional rental agency, I might as well upgrade to something fun or super close to my home for pick up. I hope this helps!

Keeping Gems Hidden or Gatekeeping Travel Destinations?

So there is a trend in travel blogging and social media where influencers aren’t putting the exact location or sharing any details about where photos are taken in order to preserve the spot from over tourism. I understand that to an extent; Venice is sinking, Machu Picchu and Iceland restricting tourist numbers, and some places like the Galapagos make it extremely difficult to visit because tourists can ruin the ecology of that delicate island.

However, I think so many of those influencers only learned of those locations through platforms like Instagram, so it feels unfair that they would be the gatekeeper to decide they can visit and post photos and make money off of that location, but no one else should be able to. 

So many places have seen a dramatic increase in tourism in the last decade or so because of platforms like Instagram. Portugal, for one, and specifically Sintra, a small town just outside of Lisbon, are great examples of that. Tourism, in the volumes it saw in 2019 and will likely see again soon, is fairly new there. And while there are some concerns in ensuring the local culture is preserved, gentrification is prevented and the infrastructure is maintained, tourism can be a powerful economic driver for the local community and can be a very positive thing if managed correctly.

I get so much travel inspiration from Instagram, YouTube, and even TikTok. And while I don’t have any delusions about my follower count, I know that my photos and posts may inspire a trip of your own. Sure, I enjoy my hidden gems, but I promise to always share where I am visiting so you can enjoy these places too. If I ever only list the park or city, feel free to comment and ask where a particular photo was taken and I’ll happily and publicly share.

My Favorite Markets So Far

Markets are some of my favorite places to eat when I travel. It’s easy to find local, affordable food that usually supports the local economy, rather than a chain restaurant or a corporate grocery store. It’s the perfect place to graze on lunch, but also grab picnic items or groceries for meals later. Plus dessert, so many desserts.

North Market

Columbus Ohio

This is my home market, even within walking distance and I’m so grateful for it. Serving as an incubator for food entrepreneurs in the city, the diverse cuisine here is incredible. 

Granville Island Public Market

Vancouver, Canada

Many markets focus on food, but some also have local shops and art galleries. Many of these galleries even open the windows and doors in the warmer months so you can peek in and watch the artisans work. The friends I was there with particularly loved the pickle stand.

Pike Place Market

Seattle, Washington

As one of the main attractions in Seattle, Pike Place gets crowded. With loads of food like Beecher’s Handmade Cheese and Piroshky Piroshky, it’s worth going, just early.

Denver Central Market

Denver, Colorado

Denver has a few markets, including one in Union Station, but Denver Central has loads of amazing places to eat and drink. Plus with all of the cool art, you may find a unique souvenir to take home as well.

Leadenhall Market

London, United Kingdom

Built in an old arcade, the Leadenhall Market is an absolutely gorgeous spot to grab a bite. Mostly restaurants and stores, rather than the traditional food stalls and produce stands, you will likely spend a little more time in one place here, rather than wandering around snacking.

St. Roch Market

New Orleans, Louisiana

While I’m all for local food stands having their own branding, the St. Roch market offers a modern black and white vibe that is so dreamy. While you’re in town you should also stop at the Shops of the Colonnade - French Market as well. Love a good outdoor market, especially with COVID.

Eastern Market

Detroit, Michigan

Full disclosure, I haven’t been here yet, but it’s the market I’m most excited about exploring next. It’s massive and looks to have been a major contributor to revitalizing this neighborhood in Detroit. Have you been yet?

Borough Market

London, United Kingdom

I love a good train station or outdoor market under a bridge. I know how weird that sounds but this place is definitely one of my favorites. Breads, macarons, coffee, scotch eggs, smoked meats. I ate it all at Borough Market.

West Side Market

Cleveland, Ohio

As no surprise to anyone, part of the draw of the West Side Market is the architecture. There are tours here that will walk you around and introduce you to the cuisine, but also the owners of the stalls as well.

Chelsea Market

New York, New York

Manhattan is one of my favorite destinations and in non-COVID times, I try to get there multiple times per year. Chelsea Market is an easy stop to enjoy some delicious food including teas, spices, and actual groceries to take home as well as ready-to-eat meals. The market also has loads of jewelry, clothing and art which make awesome souvenirs.

Mercado de La Boqueria

Barcelona, Spain

Mercado de La Boqueria is one of the most colorful markets I have ever been to. While I don’t eat many fruits, I couldn’t help but stare at the mountains of exotic fruit and nuts. Add in three-foot-long hams and all the yummy smells, and you’ve got a happy me. Seriously, go here.

Faneuil Hall

Boston, Massachusetts

This market is actually a couple different buildings and some may know this market as Quincy Market. The whole complex has more than 70 retailers and restaurants so you’re bound to find something delicious.

Findlay Market

Cincinnati, Ohio

As the third of my Ohio markets on the list, Findlay is fun one to enjoy when you’re in town. I remember having delicious Indian food and grabbing coffee and donuts. It’s also next door to Rhinegeist Brewery if you care to imbibe.

I have a list of about to dozen categories I research when planning a trip and markets are always worth my time.

Video Games Inspire Travel

Gazing at the opening scene of Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild instantly transports me to Ireland. It may not be influenced by the rolling hills of the Irish countryside, but I can’t help but daydream when my partner plays that game. I know a major reason we are planning to visit Japan is because of Persona 5. So I wanted to make a list of other video games that are perfect replicas of cities you can visit and inspire travel based on the scenery.

If you like Assassin’s Creed: Brotherhood, visit Rome.

While the first two games in the franchise took you through fun locations in Europe and the Middle East, this was the first game that let you explore a single city and make changes to it’s real-life buildings and attractions like the Colosseum.

Cliche as they are, you should definitely visit Foro Romano, the Pantheon, the Colosseum, Piazza Navona, Trevi Fountain, and Via Sacra while you’re there.

The other games in the franchise could also inspire a trip: Assassin’s Creed: Syndicate to London, Assassin’s Creed: Origins to Egypt, and Assassin’s Creed: Odyssey to Greece.

If you like Persona 5 Royal, visit Tokyo.

This is probably the closest you’ll ever get to being a teenager in Tokyo if you didn’t grow up there. Persona 5 is a beautiful love letter to living in Japan, specifically Tokyo. You ride the subway to and from school, cook and eat Japanese curry and explore iconic locations like Shibuya Crossing, Akihabara, and Shinjuku.

Besides those three, you might also enjoy the Robot Restaurant, Godzilla head, Capcom Bar, Final Fantasy Eorzea Cafe, and the Ghibli Museum. 

If you like Watch Dogs 2, visit San Francisco.

While Watch Dogs 2 wasn’t the first to recreate a city in a video game, it was the first to do so in an incredibly accurate way. Since the game’s publisher, Ubisoft, is located in SF I imagine it was a fun passion project for that team to develop an almost Google-Street-View-like version of their hometown.

The Sonic Adventure 2 City Escape level is also an ode to San Francisco, after the Sonic Team moved to the U.S. Many games embody the cities near and dear to their developers’ hearts. So much so that it’s even become a trope to explode the Golden Gate Bridge like in the Avengers game or in Star Trek: Into Darkness.

If you like Pokémon Sword and Pokémon Shield, visit Scotland.

The latest entries in the Pokémon franchise feature the Galar region which is reminiscent of The United Kingdom, particularly Scotland. The rolling hills, localized slang, and gym battles treated like major soccer games may be subtle, but the female player character can’t be anywhere else in the world but Scotland. There are even a few new Pokémon like Scorbunny (a soccer star), Wooloo (a sheep), and Weezing (a Dickens-inspired Galarian version of the original) that give off British vibes.

Looking for ideas in Scotland? Check out Glenfinnan Viaduct, The Kelpies, Circus Lane, and my whole post on Glasgow.

If you like Tony Hawk’s Pro Skater 2, visit San Diego.

While the game has locations all over California and Canada, the titular skateboarder lives in San Diego and there is a major skating culture in Southern California. 

You have to do Coronado Island and Balboa Park or even make a day trip out to Joshua Tree National Park and Palm Springs. But the food scene is amazing in So-Cal so spending any time just gorging yourself isn’t a waste.

If you like Life Is Strange, visit the Pacific Northwest. 

Arcadia Bay is a fake town, but the flannel and forested mountains make me want to lace up my hiking boots and grab my reusable coffee mug.

My favorite spots in Oregon are Multnomah Falls, Thor’s Well, Butte Creek Falls, Bagby Hot Springs, Blue Star Donuts, Stumptown Coffee, and Ground Kontrol Arcade. Washington demands you explore Bellingham, the three national parks (North Cascades, Mount Rainier, and Olympic), Pike Place Market, and Woodinville Whiskey Co.

If you like Spiderman (PS4), visit New York City.

This particular iteration isn’t the only game of the franchise to recreate New York City, but it’s the best one that details the iconic neighborhoods like Hell’s Kitchen, Tribeca, and Greenwich Village. You can even wander around to visit some landmark’s from Marvel’s New York like the law firm where Matt Murdoch practices and Avengers Tower.

As for the real life New York, I can’t possibly share all of my recommendations in one sentence so please do reach out if you are looking for unique ways to explore the most populous city in the United States.

There are so many other games that can inspire travel. A few friends listed Hydro Thunder and Venice, Overwatch and Grand Theft Auto for a variety of cities, and even Red Dead Redemption and Bodie, California.

The reverse is always true as well. If you love a particular place but can’t get back right away, picking up the controller and playing one of these games may feel like you are back.

Note: This post was written with much assistance from my partner Andrew Henderson, co-host of Debate This, a nerdy podcast about video games and comics.

The Best Souvenirs Aren’t Tchotchkes

There are plenty of ways to bring something back from your travels, but there are a few options that better support the local economy, environment, and culture that I think you should consider.

Local art

One of my favorite things to do while I’m wandering a city is to find a local artist painting or drawing. Usually they have a couple other pieces on their person that you can make an offer on. In Barcelona, I saw a watercolor artist painting and he happened to have a piece from Casa Batllo drying beside him. I asked if it was for sale and he told me it wasn’t finished. I said I loved it how it was and he said I could have it for 10 euros. It’s now part of a gallery wall in my dining room. It was small, easy to transport home, and now I have a unique story about it. I supported a local artist and I know it wasn’t shipped in from China.

Long-term functionality

Instead of buying something I’ll set on a shelf or store in a box, I like purchasing things I’ll wear or use every day or week. For example, in Edinburgh I purchased a cute pair of hexagon earrings that I knew I’d wear since my company’s logo is a hexagon. They don’t say Scotland on them anywhere, they are just a small pair of gold studs, but I know I got them on a trip and they can remind me of that adventure when I wear them to work. And when coworkers ask me where I got them, it’s fun to share the story. Pack light and plan to go shopping; you never know what fun stores you’ll find that aren’t available in your area.

Consumables

I always bring home food, drinks, and toiletries from my trips. I have discovered some of my favorites are only available in certain countries. Ahh, paprika Pringles! Getting to share these treats with friends when I return is a blast.

We have a fun tradition of getting together with friends when we return for a goofy photo slideshow while we drink wine from the trip. Nothing like drinking Croatian wine while viewing photos of that gorgeous place! We once brought home nine bottles of alcohol with no incidents. The professional strategy is to pack the giant Ziplocs with you. Each bottle gets zipped and rolled in it’s on bag, then rolled in by bulkiest sweaters and jeans, before getting packed in the inside bottom of my backpack or suitcase. You do have to check your bag on the way home, but it’s worth it!

As a way to save room on the way to our destinations, I also don’t pack many toiletries. We rely on our hotel or Airbnb to provide soap and shampoo, but if they don’t, we will stop by a local drug store to pick up a small bottle of whatever we need. And since we’re checking our bag on the way home, we just send those things home. Just another way to prolong the travel high if you are still using Japanese shampoo for a couple weeks.

Photos and writings

One of the best ways to preserve your memories is to take photographs and journal during your trip. Make time prior to leaving to learn how to best use your camera, make sure you have plenty of storage space, and pack a small journal and pen if you aren’t bringing your computer. Taking a moment to pause to get the shot just right, or take notes about what you are seeing or feeling in a place can be a beautiful way to continue enjoying your vacation long after you’ve returned. It also forces you to slow down and really take in your surroundings when it’s too easy to rush to the next museum or attraction.

Bonus: We love attending concerts when we travel. The absolute best souvenir is a song randomly playing years later from a band you first discovered abroad. Some of my favorites have even toured my hometown and seeing them live again brings me so much joy. The East Pointers, Stu Larsen, Krrum, Lavengro, Ian Britt, and so many more of my favorites came to me this way.

If you already have an extensive collection of shot glasses or magnets or ornaments from each of your trips, keep doing that. But if you don’t and are just looking for your next souvenir, consider a couple alternatives. Are you really going to use or display the item year round or is it going to end up in a box somewhere?

How to be a better travel partner

Group travel is no picnic. Well it can be, but it will take a lot of coordination and communication to make it enjoyable for everyone and not just the leader or planner. 

Close quarters for extended periods of time and a near infinite number of decisions to be made can prove that you are besties after all, or it could leave you wanting some serious space when you return.

Whether you’re going somewhere with friends, family or complete strangers, the pace, budget, dietary needs, and must-sees are all things you should discuss before you begin planning. My travel questionnaire is a good place to start your conversation.

Plan wisely

Not every trip is meant for every group. Forcing your bougie friends to go backpacking with you probably isn’t going to end well. Vegas with your conservative parents, maybe not. Asking your friend who just graduated school to join you in Fiji, all they see is dollar signs.

Some trips are better for you and one other person while others may be exponentially more fun with a big group.

You can decide who you want to travel with and then plan a destination together, or you can choose where you want to experience and determine who would be best to join you.

Set appropriate expectations

Some people prefer spending their time lounging by a pool while others want to explore and stay active. Neither is wrong but if you both have your own preferences in mind when planning you may be disappointed when you find you have to compromise on the pace and activities of the trip. 

The same could be true about budget. Imagine spending hours pouring over research and finding the best hotel only to find out that your travel partner only intended to spend half that much. If you can have the tough conversations in advance of planning, you’ll save yourself some headache later. No one wants to feel guilted into spending more than they can afford.

You may have in your head that the best flight is a nonstop early in the morning, but your travel partners would rather do two long layovers overnight because it’s cheapest. Those are very different experiences so a discussion about value is just as important as budget. 

Communicate clearly

Depending on the length of time and personality types, some of your fellow travelers may need time to themselves. That very well may be a few hours in the middle of the day where you explore separately before meeting up for dinner. It could also mean you take a weekend side trip while they would rather stay put. But you have to be attuned to your own needs and communicate what you need as well as ask questions about theirs. 

Are there things on your list that are must-sees? Ask if they are on their list as well and if not and it’s still important to you, plan to check that one off on your own. Perhaps you’ll discover something new from their must-see list that you are newly interested in joining them for.

Be flexible

If you’re used to planning most of your own travel, letting someone else take the lead can be difficult. They may not be as detailed a researcher as you are but going with the flow and traveling their way may be a fun experiment. I just don’t recommend this for a bucket list trip. You’ll of course want to do that one your way. But for a weekend trip to a place you’ve already been before or know you’ll visit again, flexibility can make it fun.

Additionally, you may have the opportunity to try foods that aren’t common in your part of the world. Be open to trying not only new foods and drinks, but exploring the culture of the local people. It’s of course okay to be a tourist and take photos, but learn something about the history, art, literature, theater, traditions, fashion, music, etc. It can add magic to your vacation. But you have to go with the flow.

Generally, being a good travel partner includes knowing what you want and communicating that, and being considerate of the other travelers’ needs and looking for ways to accommodate them flexibly. Hopefully your travel brings you together, but remember that you can still enjoy a person and not travel well with each other.

Five Worst Travel Planning Mistakes

Travel planning can be exhausting. There are so many details that can be researched in order to ensure you have the best vacation, but it takes time to dig into all of that. Inexperienced travel planners can easily miss important considerations and forget about critical details. So as you begin planning your post-pandemic respite, make sure you do it correctly.

Don’t book the wrong location

COVID-19 changed travel so you may not be able to simply copy and paste an itinerary that was built in 2019 to your 2022 travels. Some countries have vaccine, testing, or quarantine requirements. Most cities and states have new rules about eating indoors, which museums are open, and if concerts and festivals can happen at all. Until we establish a new normal, you may want to hold on your dream trip. Shibuya Crossing in Tokyo, the busiest intersection in the world, might not be what you expect. However, it may be the perfect time for other locations that are normally packed with tourists where you can take advantage of perhaps a lighter crowd. Or perhaps an outdoor-based holiday will better suit you in the short term.

Don’t book the wrong season

We all have times of the year when we really can’t book travel like a teacher during the school year, or an accountant during tax season. But the time of year you can travel can significantly impact your trip. Consider avoiding the Caribbean during hurricane season. Maybe avoid Florida during spring break or Iceland in the winter. Shoulder seasons are my favorite time to visit a place and “shoulder” means something different in each destination. For example in Colorado, it may mean just before and after prime ski season. Or before or after the Olympics or cherry blossom blooming. When you are making your list of places you’d like to visit, also notate when would be ideal and when you’d like to avoid going there. I’m not really interested in the summer heat of 130 degrees in Death Valley, but I’d certainly visit in the spring or fall.

Don’t book the wrong time

I don’t have many regrets in my travels, but I do regret planning to be in London from a Sunday to a Thursday. Missing out on the weekend in a massive metropolitan city makes me feel like I didn’t quite get the whole experience. The reverse could be true of some destinations though. Visiting Yosemite National Park on a Saturday in the summer could be a nightmare of sitting in traffic instead of enjoying all the park has to offer. I try to plan my offbeat activities over the weekend to avoid crowds and hit up the major museums on the weekdays. Of course, that’s unless I’m trying to experience something spectacular in a crowd like a concert or festival. Even time of day can impact your experience. Hiking in the early morning means you usually get the trail to yourself. Getting a late dinner usually means you don’t have to wait for a table. 

Don’t book the wrong length

Each destination is different so 24-hours at Mount Rushmore may be plenty of time, but five nights in Marrakech might not be enough to explore everything you want to see. It’s important to investigate the location you are visiting and determine the things you want to do and see including day trips from your base as well. Finding you booked three days in a place you really just needed to pass through can feel like a waste. The opposite isn’t so bad as not enough time somewhere just means you’ll have to come back.

Don’t book the wrong neighborhood or lodging

Parallel to the length of time, it’s important to start with what you want to do in a place before booking any lodging. You may find that you’d rather stay closer to your daily activities, or that you prefer a hipper, more local neighborhood than that touristy one. The lodging you book may be impacted by the activities too. Some destinations are perfect for camping so reluctantly booking a hotel in a panic could be regretful once you decide you’re just going to be hiking in one particular area. Or once you realize the weather is going to be hot and you’ll want a daily shower, you might regret booking that primitive campsite for the entire trip.

I hate seeing people panic and book flights and lodging before they really dig into their research. It almost always leaves us trying to retro fit fun into that predetermined box, rather than building the trip around their interests. If you are seeing flights fill up, or lodging become sparse, take a few hours to research before actually hitting the reserve button. Or better yet, book your flight but do you research within 24 hours so if you need to change or cancel it, you’ll be able to without much hassle.

Regardless, all of this research takes time. You know where to find me if it sounds too overwhelming, or you just want to gut check with me.

How to get the most out of your limited PTO

What if I told you that even with just 10 days of vacation time you could take vacations totaling 36 days? It just takes a little bit of advanced planning. 

Method to the travel madness

I know the way I do things sounds a little neurotic to even my closest friends, but it’s also how I travel so frequently. At the end of each year I make a new Google Doc that lists out every single day of the upcoming year. Then I bold the weekends so it’s easy to skim. From there, I mark which days my company has holidays. I pay particular attention to the holidays that back up to a weekend, like Martin Luther King, Jr. Day is always a Monday.

Then I start plugging in my destinations based on season, distance, number of days needed there, etc.

Traveling on major holidays like Memorial Day and Labor Day can be more expensive and crowded, but it may be worth it if you’re limited with the paid time off you earn from your employer.

Long weekends every month

If you took advantage of MLKJ, President’s Day, Memorial Day, Fourth of July, Labor Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years, you could take a three or four day trip every month of the year and still have a few days left over.

These long weekends can be just as refreshing as a week-long holiday except you can pack lighter, and there is less prep and planning to be away from the office or your home. You still get the pre-travel jitters and your friends still enjoy hearing about your plans and seeing photos when you get back. You just get to go to 12 times as many destinations.

Sometimes waiting for one big vacation feels great, and sometimes, I just want to peace out now. 

Where is good for a long weekend?

Maybe this isn’t your annual game plan since it’s harder to get to some far-flung bucket list locales. But for off years when you want to save a little money for that boat cruise around Croatia or the over-water bungalow in Bali, this might be the perfect way to explore your own country.

In non-COVID times, I employ this method about every other year. We try not to take big international trips more than every 18 months or so. But between big trips, we’re still exploring. My coworkers have even gotten so used to my monthly travel that they often ask where I’m heading next. 

Depending on where you live, you have lots of options for where to choose for your weekend adventures. For long weekends, I like to choose places no more than a five-hour drive or a three-hour flight. Any longer than that and I can’t arrive in my destination after work on the day I leave. If I have to spend half of Saturday traveling, then I really only have Sunday to enjoy because Monday I have to travel home. But if I can leave Friday after work, I can enjoy all of Saturday and Sunday before heading home Monday.

You may be surprised how many interesting places are within a short drive from your home. It just takes a little research. I have a short list of my own interests that I always research in addition to the typical restaurants and bars: markets, bookstores, libraries, speakeasies, museums, concert venues, comedy, art galleries/exhibits, parks, and board game parlors. There are always going to be unique things in that destination like the Bourbon Trail in Kentucky, whale watching in California, and a Salem witch tour in Massachusetts, but I also find unique versions of things I already love.

If you love a place, feel free to return, but I easily get bored so I love exploring new places. It’s almost always worth the risk of it being just okay. And even if it’s not the most thrilling place, now you know. And you’ll be glad you spent just a long weekend there instead of your whole year’s PTO.

Travel for work?

If you are lucky enough to travel for work, consider tacking on a day or two at the end of your trip. You may have time in the evenings to explore wherever you are, and your transportation to and from that location is taken care of. 

If you can schedule your work thing on a Monday, book your flight to that destination on Friday night so you can enjoy the weekend. Your employer will only pay for the hotel the nights you are actually supposed to be there, but it’s still worth it. The same thing works for Friday meetings as well.

And if you can’t rearrange your schedule, ask your manager if you can work remote the other days. For example if you have a Tuesday meeting somewhere, fly in (on the company dollar) on Friday night, explore Saturday and Sunday, work remote Monday and you’re all prepped for your Tuesday meeting. Plus you didn’t have to take time off to travel Monday so you’re actually more productive for your team.

Even stealing away to visit a museum while you slam a sandwich over lunch can make your work trip feel more enjoyable.

There are lots of strategies to get the most out of your limited PTO. You know where to find me if you want help.

Travel Health Hacks I’m Continuing Even After COVID-19

I took a couple trips in 2020. I know the safest thing I could have done was stay home. But for my mental health, I needed to get out of my house.

I took a long weekend road trip to Michigan. I took a week-long trip to Washington and Montana. And I took an 11-day trip to Utah. All three trips were exclusively outdoor activities like hiking, and takeout or cooking meals at our Airbnb.

I know not everyone will agree with our actions, but we isolated before and after each trip and distanced and wore masks during. We were lucky to have flights with as few as 15 people, but that isn’t a guarantee.

However, I also did a ton of research and planning to help make these trips as safe as we could. And honestly, I’ll probably continue doing many of these things even after COVID. How were we ever comfortable letting strangers breathe on us?!

How to stay healthy while flying during COVID:

Before you book any flight, research the safety protocols of the airline you’re considering (or just ask me since I’ve already done that research). Some aren’t selling middle seats; some are spray sanitizing; some are offering no-fee cancellations or changes. These safety policies are constantly evolving so be sure to check the dates as well. My personal recommendations are Delta and Southwest.

1. The air on a plane circulates top to bottom, not left and right or front to back. So as soon as you get on the plane, open the vent above your seat, then once you get situated make sure it’s pointed right at your nose so that’s the air you are breathing the whole flight. 

2. Most airlines are providing wipes as you board to wipe your area. This is mostly superficial since many airlines are also spray sanitizing and wiping everything before you get on, but it doesn’t hurt. I am sure to double wipe everything I plan on touching, including the seatbelt, the arm rests, the knob that opens the tray table, the tray table itself, and the window cover. If you get a second one or bring your own, I also wipe the seat itself and the headrest.

3. You may not wear a mask with a plastic filter on most airlines, but you should still consider one with a metal noseband and that fits very snugly around your nose and mouth. I even have a few that have fabric carbon filters.

4. Do not remove your mask for any reason. This includes indulging in the free snack and drink the flight attendant might bring you, especially right after they deliver the goodies as that’s when most people will remove their masks.

5. Bring your own snacks and fill your water bottle at the airport after security. Many airport restaurants are closed which crowds the ones that are still open. If you must eat and drink between home and your destination, I have felt most comfortable finding a secluded spot in the airport directly below a vent where I can take my mask off to quickly eat and chug water. Be sure to hydrate and eat prior to leaving your home and have a plan to replenish as soon as you get to your destination.

6. In addition to your mask, some sort of covering for your eyes may give you more peace of mind as well. I wore my simple blue light filter glasses, but some have worn lab goggles or the headband-style plastic shields like medical personnel wear. 

7. This one may seem overkill, but unless you prefer to sleep, sanitize your hands every hour. This may dry out your skin so remember lotion as well.

8. Because you’ll have the air conditioning vent on full blast the entire flight you’ll want long sleeves and long pants. This will also protect your skin from exposure as well. Be sure you change clothes when you arrive in your destination, and if you can, shower. Put on a fresh mask after your shower.

9. Ideally you should drive yourself to the airport and park. Unless you can walk everywhere, you should rent a car upon arrival so you can avoid ride shares and public transportation.

10. If you are the type to wipe down your groceries, you may also want to wipe down your luggage, handles, phone and other items you touched throughout your trip, even if no one else touched it.

How to stay safe while driving:

1. Drive only with your household members. If that is not possible, all people should wear masks and roll the windows down. I did take a Lyft on one of my trips and the driver had no issue with leaving the window down even in chilly weather.

2. Make as few gas, bathroom and food stops as possible and combine stops when you can.

3. Bring food and drinks from home.

4. Wipe down your vehicle before and after your trip. Even if it’s your personal vehicle; all our cars could use a clean anyway, I’m sure.

5. If you are renting a car, drive with the windows down for your first few minutes to make sure it is aired out a bit.

How to stay safe when you arrive at your destination:

1. While there is significant debate over whether a hotel is safer than an Airbnb, I personally feel better about an Airbnb simply for the reason that I can isolate from other people more easily. It’s difficult to keep distance when we’re riding in elevators and sharing hallways and lobbies. In the Airbnb, I can clean and sanitize the home when I arrive.

2. Before you leave home, schedule a grocery delivery to your destination. Another reason for Airbnbs: when you can get groceries delivered and cook for yourself in the kitchen you can interact with fewer people from restaurants.

3. I know take out food is never as good, but it’s safer than eating at restaurants unless it’s on a patio.

4. Choose outdoor activities like hiking, rafting, skiing, climbing, beaching, etc. There are plenty of options, but make sure to practice outdoor safety as well like sunscreen.

5. Wash your hands, bring sanitizer, swap out cloth masks every day (bring at least as many masks as you are underthings).

It feels like there are no hard and fast rules other than wearing a mask. Any of the above precautions could help mitigate your risk of catching or spreading COVID-19. 

If you’re nervous, I’m happy to share my own experiences and discuss the risks and precautions further. 

And if you’d rather avoid planes at all this year, I’m happy to brainstorm a road trip for you.

16 libraries worth traveling for

Museums are an obvious category you research when planning your trip. The incredible architecture, history, art, music and more are all worth exploring. But you should also research libraries. 

Libraries are often perched in some of our communities’ most historic buildings, or are given flexibility to design some of the city’s most modern buildings. You might have the opportunity to view some of the oldest or rarest manuscripts, experience movie sets in person, or connect more deeply with a favorite writer or culture.

Many libraries offer exhibits like museums too, like presidential libraries which are almost always worth checking out. 

Visit these libraries for historical architecture:

Boston Public Library

Boston, Massachusetts

Free admission

While the entire building is filled with interesting architecture, the real gem is Bates Hall where the original tables and bookshelves are still in use along with the classic green lamps. It was meant to be a palace for the people in the late 1800s and it still feels palatial in 2021.

George Peabody Library

Johns Hopkins University

Closed due to COVID-19, but you can visit virtually

Okay, while the Peabody is now a wedding venue, it’s still technically a library. The 19th century architecture is romantic beyond belief so it makes sense as a wedding venue. The cast iron railings and golden hues make it a magical place to just stare.

The Long Room

Trinity College Dublin

$22, the Long Room in the Old Library at Trinity College Dublin actually comes with your admission to the Book of Kells exhibit, but I bought the ticket mostly for the Long Room.

While you can only walk about halfway down the center aisle on a tour, it's an absolutely gorgeous, moody library with the dark oak ceiling added in 1861, 129 years after it’s opening.

Real Gabinete Portugues de Leitura

Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

Free, but temporarily closed due to COVID-19

Time Magazine voted the Royal Portuguese Reading Rooom the fourth most beautiful library in the world.  Can you tell I’m smitten for 19th century gothic styles? But this one also fits in the below category of interesting contents as well because it is one of the most complete modern libraries of Portuguese literature as home to at least one copy of almost every book ever printed. It’s also home to lots of publishing and printing paraphernalia, all operational and viewable by the public.

Admont Abbey Library

Admont, Austria

$15 for a tour

As the world’s largest monastery library, the Admont Abbey Library was built in the Baroque period and boasts art and literature from the 8th century. It’s bright pastel colors exude the enlightenment it meant to convey.

Visit these libraries for modern designs:

Arabian Library

Scottsdale, Arizona

Free

While I am a sucker for super historic or hyper modern, it’s important that it blends well with its surroundings. The Arabian Library is a perfect ode to its southwestern location. The copper, glass and soft lighting are stunning. Plus, It’s LEED® certified and you all know I have a sweet spot for sustainability.

Seattle Public Library

Seattle, Washington

Free

Finished in 2004, the Central Library building has such unique geometry and its dark glass exterior and concrete interior make it worth the stop while you visit Seattle. So much natural light! It has capacity for more than 1.45 million volumes. The unique floor was even designed by an artist from Ohio. Insider tip: go find the hidden octopus mural on the 3rd floor.

Geisel Library

University of California San Diego

Free

Named for Dr. Seuss, it totally looks like it could be in a Seuss book with the top floors of the building large than the bottom, resembling a tree. Designed by the same architect as the TransAmerica Pyramid in San Francisco and the rocket-launching facilities in Cape Canaveral, the library is like nothing else, design-wise.

Binhai Library

Tianjin, China

Free

Affectionately known as The Eye, the library is part of the Binhai Cultural Center (southeast of Beijing) and was opened in 2017. If Gaudi had to build a functional library, this might have been one of his concepts in that it nods to nature in the fluidity of the floor-to-ceiling shelves. The up-lighting in dusk hours makes it even more interesting to look at. However, there are no books on the shelves because it’s not structurally sound, so what you see on the shelves are just printed images of spines.

Byeolmadang Library

Seoul, South Korea

Free

Like the Binhai Library, many of the shelves are inaccessible due to the design, but at least there are actual books on the shelves at Byeolmadang Library. Most of the books are in other areas than the main atrium which usually has art exhibitions and a speaker series. The library touts itself as more of a meeting place and what a fun one.

National Library

Minsk, Belarus

Free, but some attractions are a dollar or so

Another glass polyhedron that resembles a tree, the National Library building was completed in 2006. This one has it all though: a conference center, an observation deck, a gym, a book museum and four art galleries. Plus they light up the outside like a festive disco ball.

Biblioteca Vasconcelos

Mexico City, Mexico

Free

Also built in 2006, this library is made of steel, concrete, marble, granite, wood and glass. Major warehouse vibes, it’s known as a megalibrary with 409,000 square feet of space. Some structural issues caused the library to be closed shortly after opening but it was repaired and safe for the public again in 2008. 

Visit these libraries for interesting or rare books and artifacts:

Kurt Vonnegut Museum and Library

Indianapolis, Indiana

$12

While Vonnegut isn’t my favorite author, I happened to have a couple extra minutes while in Indianapolis for work so I decided to take a peek. It was a charming little spot and the docent even talked me through some of the artifacts and history. Unassuming and a fun gift shop with all of Vonnegut’s work for sale.

Library of Congress

Washington, District of Columbia

Free, but temporarily closed due to COVID-19

As the largest library in the world, The Library of Congress is home to some of the world’s oldest writings, even before books were invented (tablets from 2040 BC). You can also see a Gutenberg Bible and a rough draft of the Declaration of Independence. The library is currently lead by Carla Hayden, the first woman and first Black American to do so since its founding in 1800. The Library of Congress is also where you’ll find the U.S. Copyright Office and the National Library Service for the Blind and Physically Handicapped.

Beinecke Rare Book & Manuscript Library

Yale University

Free, but temporarily closed due to COVID-19

The Library of Congress may be the largest library in the world, but the Beinecke Rare Book & Manuscript Library is the largest private library in the world of its kind and even has temperature and humidity controls to ensure the books are preserved for generations to come. Unlike many of the modern glass libraries we see today, the Beinecke is made from quarter-inch marble that lets in only dim light. This interesting feature could also put it in the visit because it’s cool looking category too.

Bodleian Libraries

Oxford University

Tours start at $5 but temporarily closed due to COVID-19, visit virtually

Oxford University was used as much of the inspiration for the Harry Potter books and movies, and the Bodleian Libraries are a significant part of that. The Bodleian operate as a collection of libraries each dedicated to a wide range of different subjects including the history of medicine, islamic studies and ornithology.

Want help planning a bibliophile vacation? Bookstores, libraries and author hotspots are a favorite attraction category of mine so I’d love to help.

How to Plan a Hiking or Backpacking Trip

One way we can enjoy our time off from work this year is to spend time outside. That may mean a simple picnic in your local park, or it may mean a backpacking trek to a national park across the country. If your trip lands somewhere on the second part of that spectrum, there are a few things you can do to prepare for your trip to make it the most fun and stress-free.

Plan Ahead

Some of my friends love spontaneity so much that they usually just wing it. That’s a little harder to do with backpacking and hiking trips because you may need different gear, more water, or even a lottery permit depending on what trails you choose.

There are some incredible hikes around the world and if you have any FOMO at all, you should consider taking on one of them. While popularity might be a positive thing in most circumstances, coronavirus may impact which trails you choose. However, you can often still find a way to experience the best views while avoiding crowds.

Did you know that 90 percent of visitors to the Grand Canyon visit from the south rim? The north rim is just as majestic and you can find trails that are completely deserted, especially off-season or early mornings. Even some of the most popular trails may be pretty quiet at 6 a.m. in the middle of the summer. And bonus, you’ll miss the midday heat.

After asking friends and locals, I usually start my research on AllTrails where I can narrow in on a specific geographic area that I plan to visit. You can filter by length, difficulty and more.

Choose a hike

Based on my own fitness level, I try to schedule a big hike no more than every other day. For example for my Southern Utah National Parks trip, we did an eight-mile hike in Bryce Canyon on a Sunday, then waited to do a six-mile river hike in The Narrows in Zion until Tuesday, then waited until Thursday to do another six-miler in Arches. The days in between we hiked only two or three miles each day to rest.

But I’ve also done the backpacking trips where we only did one 22-miler in a weekend and just rested when we returned home.

When you’re thinking about how long you want to hike, you should also think about elevation. Not only the elevation gain throughout the hike, but the starting elevation compared to where you live. For example, you will likely travel much more slowly in Colorado if you live in Los Angeles because your body isn’t used to the altitude in the Rockies. To minimize this effect, you can plan to stay a few days in your destination before beginning your hike. 

Fun side note: Ever wonder why so many Olympic training centers are in the mountains? They train at the higher altitude (less oxygen) so their bodies can perform at peak levels in any environment.

A good rule of thumb for the average hiker is no more than 1,000 feet of elevation gain per mile. Any more than that, you’ll want to do a bit of training before your hike.

There may also be different weather to consider on your hike. Checking the forecast for the nearest town often isn’t indicative of the weather on the trail so apps like AllTrails can give you a better sense of what the temperature and precipitation might be at the trail’s elevation.

The location you choose to explore may not have cell service so it’s always a good idea to download an offline map or have a physical one with you to ensure you don’t get lost and can find your way back to civilization. I’ve hiked in a place legitimately called Desolation Wilderness and you better believe it was absolutely off-grid.

Finalize your hike

Always research the hike you are considering on the official webpage, be it the national park or state park website because it will provide details on closures, animals, and more.

You should research not only what animals you may meet on your hike, but also appropriate behaviors in case of an encounter. Some of the smallest, cutest animals can be dangerous, and how you react seeing a grizzly is much different than how you should behave if you run into a black bear.

Many popular hikes have a permit system where you may have to pay a fee to enter a lottery up to a year in advance of your trip. Mount Whitney is one example where almost 17,000 people submitted entries to the lottery and only 5,000 were permitted all summer. Some people enter annually and wait years to get the opportunity to explore that trail.

Certain parks may not allow private vehicle traffic to help with traffic and parking issues. They often offer shuttle services that may need reservations well in advance of your trip as well.

In addition to the trail’s official webpage, reviews on All Trails may also provide insights to any obstacles you may encounter like creek crossings, icy patches, rock scrambling, etc. This can help you pack the appropriate gear.

Pack the right gear

You don’t have to have all the fanciest gear to enjoy nature, however, depending on your dream hike, it may make your experience significantly more enjoyable and less stressful.

For all hikes, you’ll want a pack big enough to carry everything you need. Obviously overnight backpacking trips will need a bigger pack than a short day hike. I’m happy to help with a packing list appropriate for your trip, but here are some basics you may not have thought of:

• I always love bringing a fresh change of clothes for when I return to my car. Fresh under things and warm, dry clothes are a luxury that don’t take up any valuable space in my backpack.

• A water bladder instead of a bottle. It comes with a giant bendy straw that is much more accessible than your bottle, and it can hold way more. I usually share a three liter bladder with my husband and we rarely run out.

• Add dry soap sheets to your first aid kit. You usually have plenty of water in your bladder and it’s a tiny addition in case you need it. Obviously we’re all carrying hand sanitizer for coronavirus, but friendly reminder to use that before you break for a snack.

• It’s almost always a good idea to opt for hiking boots over hiking shoes. Invest in the comfiest ones you can find and you’ll only need to bring this one pair. I also bring a plastic shower cap that I can put around my dirty boots when I pack my bag so they don’t muck up the rest of my things. A plastic grocery bag works just as well. 

• No cotton clothing. Look at the tags on your clothing and choose synthetic materials or wool. This is particularly important for your base layers like socks, sports bras, underwear, gloves and a hat because you’ll want these to stay dry or at least dry quickly if they do get wet (with sweat). Smart Wool is my favorite brand for hiking socks.

• Avoid anything with a particular smell. Leave the perfume, fragranced deodorant, and hair products at home. You’ll already be piquing the interest of local fauna with your snacks and natural scent. No need to attract bugs any closer with your floral lotion. Another way to deter animals is to make noise along your hike. A simple conversation is enough, but some choose to wear a bell or play music quietly. Most animal encounters happen when you accidentally sneak up on each other.

• Build yourself small emergency kit for any weather that includes an emergency blanket, band aids (moleskin works well preventatively), a whistle, a headlamp, and depending on your location bear spray. Keep that last item in an outside pocket of your pack, or even on your belt for easy access. Bear spray can be helpful for animals beyond bears so it’s a must have for me. 

• Speaking of animals, if you are doing any overnight backpacking, you may need a bear canister to prevent them from getting to your food stash. If you do bring this along, prepare your meals and eat at least 100 feet from where you plan to sleep. Then change your clothes and place them with your bear canister before sliding into your sleeping bag for the night. No one wants to be a human candy bar in your tent when the critters come crawling around.

• I usually go on airplane mode to conserve my phone battery while I’m taking a million photos. But I also bring an external battery that will completely charge my phone three more times just to be safe.

• Dry sacks are so useful for the obvious use, but sometimes I use them to keep my wet stuff from touching everything else, or even as a cooler with a couple ice packs in them. Take a tip from my friend Shane and bring a hike beer.

• For cold weather hiking you may want crampons or snowshoes.

Begin your hike

If you haven’t done much major hiking, there are a few tips that will keep you out of trouble. Most trails are well marked, however you need to know what to look for. You may only find formal signage at major crossroads, so being able to navigate the trail system can be tricky. And sometimes telling the difference between the trail and a wash (where the water flows after rain) can be hard. Firstly, you can watch for natural items that aren’t where they look like they belong. If you get to a point where you see a trail going in two different directions, look for big logs or rocks that block off one of those. It’s usually a cue from the ranger that that’s not the right way. Rangers also use cairns or small stacks of flat rocks to indicate direction of the trail in places without easy natural blockers like in snow or mostly smooth rock trails.

Nature calls

Sure, the great outdoors may tug on your heart strings, but any hike longer than a couple hours may also mean you have to relieve yourself along the trail. First of all, hikers are generally pretty chill about the situation so don’t be shy; we’ve all done it. Try to find a spot with a little privacy and ask your hiking partner to stand guard and ask oncoming hikers to pause a moment while you finish. 

It’s usually a better idea to urinate in flowing water or on rocks or dirt, not on vegetation.

You usually have two options for number two unless dictated by the park you’re in. You can bring a small trowel to dig yourself a six-inch hole and bury your waste. Or you can bring a Double Doodie bag that has special chemicals in it to solidify the waste that you carry out with you. In either circumstance you should bring your own toilet paper in two ziploc bags (one for clean TP and one for dirty).

You should always pack out any trash you create while hiking, but you can duct tape that silver poop bag to the outside of your pack and wear it as a badge of honor. You’re officially a hiker after pooping in a bag on a trail!

I’ve hiked hundreds of miles and done a few serious backpacking and camping trips. If you’re looking to stay socially distanced outdoors this year, I’m happy to help you prepare for your trip.

Travel Resilience: How to make travel fun even when things aren’t perfect

No trip is perfect. Ever. In all my years or travel, I haven’t been on a single trip that didn’t have something go wrong. You can read more about that in my Travel Nightmares series. It can be something as simple as I couldn’t find a restaurant I was into, or something as big as the Airbnb we booked wasn’t uninhabitable. I’ve gotten a flat tire in the middle of nowhere, been lost in very busy traffic, missed flights and museum reservations, ruined entire suitcases of clothes, ended up a block from a major riot, and so much more.

But like in life, you have to figure out a way to address the situation and move forward. Your attitude can make all the difference as you solve the problem and enjoy the rest of your vacation. You can recover from almost anything. So here are a few examples and what to do to make the most of it.

Missed your flight?

If you’re at the airport, visit the nearest same airline desk agent to ask for help. They may be able to assist you right there, or they can point you in the direction of someone who can. Speaking to a person live is usually better than calling the help center of your airline. 

If it’s your fault you missed the flight or forces of nature, you will need to pay for the newly booked flight out of your own pocket. But if it’s the airline’s fault, they should cover the fare of the new flight and any additional costs you might incur like a hotel room overnight, meal vouchers, and ground transportation transfers. 

Mildly stressful because you may miss out on a few hours of relaxation, but in the end, it’s not a big deal. At least you can still go.

Car troubles?

If it’s an accident or a breakdown, it’s best to stop and get out of the vehicle to assess the problem. Take a breath and consider your options.

Check to see if your or the rental car’s insurance company covers a tow truck or roadside service. Call a local repair shop to see if they can assist you or if they know someone who can.

Luckily when this happened to us, we were traveling with friends in another vehicle who helped us change the tire and followed us to a local repair shop to purchase a new one.

If it’s something less scary, like you’re simply lost in the medina of an international city where you aren’t as familiar with the road signs, try to pull off the road and regroup before continuing driving. This happened to us in Seville, Spain while trying to find our Airbnb. I had printed out and studied all of the Spanish road signs, but those one-way, narrow streets were super confusing. We ended up having a bunch of locals yelling at us in Spanish and trying to help, but we only knew derecha and izquierda (right and left respectively), and with bicyclists ramming their front tires into our back bumper, we were a little flustered. So after making a 57-point turn to get out of that particular intersection, we found a spot to pull off out of the way and regroup. We actually ended up calling our Airbnb host who was awesome enough to come to where we were parked, got in the front seat of our car, and directed us to the parking garage.

Unworkable lodging?

We’ve all been to the grubby hotel or Airbnb in a less than stellar neighborhood. Most of the time we can make it work but if you get into a place you just can’t be comfortable sleeping, don’t force it. You need a good night’s sleep to enjoy the rest of your vacation tomorrow and beyond. Sometimes the hotel can swap rooms, or Airbnb customer service can help you find something else. It may take a few minutes and it’s always a little nerve-wracking telling someone else you’re unhappy and need them to fix it for you, but it’s worth it. And that’s part of their job. Most of the time, the host or hotel would rather have you speak up so they can resolve the issue than have you write a bad review or tell your friends and family how awful it was. 

I bailed on an Airbnb recently and was so glad I was able to find something else last minute rather than suffer through the bad experience.

Health issues?

Before you leave ensure you have health insurance that will cover you and your travel partners in case you get sick or injured on your trip. You may be doing adventurous things or eating strange foods not part of your normal routine so there is a higher likelihood of something going wrong. You should always bring basic medications like ibuprofen, allergy medicine, Tums, band aids, and more with you for minor things. But you should also memorize the 9-1-1 equivalent in the place you are visiting, and know how to find a pharmacy (often in Europe they are denoted by a green cross). I once had to ask for medication for some sinus gunk in Portugal and it was certainly an interesting experience. Medications in other countries are different than the States so be sure to check the dosage and instructions. And don’t be alarmed if the pills have a sweet candy-like coating on them. 

The experience you booked sucked?

Sometimes the concert, museum or excursion you booked just plain stinks. That happens. Not everything can be awe-inspiring or epic. If everything is a 10 out of 10, nothing is. Reframe it in your head as a now you know. I once thought parasailing was going to be exhilarating and it was boring. Now I know that that’s not for me. We once went to a concert at Red Rocks Amphitheater and it was a major fail. If I ever go again, I’ll change how I approach the day so I can prevent the bad parts.

And for me, I always consider that now I can help you have more positive experiences because of my own struggles. With proper planning and a good attitude, travel mishaps can go from a complete disaster to just a good story to tell when you return.