Going Off-Resort in Mexico: Swimming with Dead Bodies

Missed the first three parts? Start here.

After 45 minutes of hiking we arrived at a clearing in the jungle. It was a short structure that had two four-by-fours coming out of the ground and one across the top of them. Then a thin yellow twine ladder that disappeared into a three-by-three-foot hole in the ground. The hole I didn’t even see upon arrival.

We were to connect our harnesses to a paracord and rappel down into the abyss. Um, no. I’m afraid of the dark so I made my groom go first. He happily hooked up and headed into the black hole beneath us. A few minutes later we heard a splash. This was where we were swimming. In the black hole in the ground. Whelp, if I’m gonna die, this is at least a good story. After I slid down the rope and hit water, the guide quickly followed. Once he did, he turned on a flashlight so we could see our new pool and hundreds of bats fluttered to life, swarming above our heads and eventually flying out of the hole. “That’s why we had to enter in the dark, so they wouldn’t be flying around when we were trying to pass,” our guide explained.

He pointed his flashlight to the ceiling, and all of the walls around us. We were in a sphere of limestone that was about a third of the way filled with water. Most of it had seeped through the rock so it was crystal clear. It was about 100 feet across and actually romantic once you got passed the bats above. That is until the guide directed us to look down to the floor of the pool.

“This is a cenote, which was used to bury the dead. If you let the water go still you can see 126 skeletons lined up across the bottom. Cool, eh?”

And we could in fact see all of the bodies in the pool we were swimming in. So that was it for me and I headed to the  twine ladder to finish the swimming part of our adventure.

After a long, heavy climb, the three of us made it to ground level again. Another hike took us to a beautiful look out over a lagoon, where we learned we’d be zip lining across the entire quarter-mile lake. Again, not going first. The guide explained that the stick we’d been wielding was actually our brake and that we should hook it onto the singular line (usually there are two) once we got close to the end to slow down. Plus, two of the petite Mayan people would catch us. 

It was a beautiful ride, and exhilarating since we were flying down the line. Once I got close to the other side of the lagoon, I yanked down hard on my stick only to find that I was not slowing down. Seeing it all happen in slow motion, my partner and our Mayan friends noticed I was turning because I yanked so hard and was only inches from getting my legs sliced off by the nearby trees. Luckily, I tucked and they all caught me together as we tumbled to the ground.

After recovering from that, we were told we’d be canoeing back across the lake, but to be careful because there were alligators. Of course there were.

Having seldom kayaked and canoed before, we were a little wobbly in our strokes and balance, but the Mayan team decided it would be fun to race us back to shore. They of course beat us by many minutes and chuckled as they helped us step out of the boats and back toward the van.

The Save

Wrecked and ragged from the emotional and physical day we had, we both slept on the return to the resort. And the bottle of champagne I drank upon arrival was some of the best I ever tasted out of pure exhaustion and relief. 

So obviously we survived, but would I do it again? Probably not. Just like doing a back flip off my horse, the older I get the less brave I find myself. Don’t get me wrong, I’m still down for adventure, just calculated risk. 

In that vein, there are a couple tips I can offer you based on what we learned during this excursion and the many we have taken since.

  1. Physical safety should always be a top concern.

  2. Try as much weird food as you can, as long as you can reasonably presume safe food handling.

  3. Trust your travel partner if they seem confident, and empathize with them if they second guess you. 

  4. Do something local that you can’t do anywhere else in the world.

  5. There is no shame in drinking champagne upon your return.

What was your scariest travel story?

Going Off-Resort in Mexico: Drinking Unknown Substances in the Jungle

Between Coba and our next stop was another hour of driving. This drive was peculiar because it was straight, flat and there was nothing on either side for the entire trip. The jungle rose above us for at least 30 feet; there were no intersections, no driveways, and no other vehicles.

We finally arrived at a clearing and the driver turned in. No signs, no entry gate, no other tours. The guide explained that he didn’t speak Mayan and that the Mayan people assisting us today didn’t speak Spanish, and definitely no English. He shared that we would be seeing a shaman to help us gain spiritual entrance to the jungle, and from there we would be hiking, rappelling, swimming, zip lining and canoeing so we should only bring with us what we were comfortable getting wet. Back in 2013, that meant leaving our phones in the van, no photos, no emergency calls, no identification if we disappeared.

We changed into our swimsuits, tossed on a layer of shorts and a tank top and our trusty Tom’s. Meanwhile the other couple decided they had enough and would not be partaking. The guide explained that he could not return them to the resort at this time and their only options were to join us or sit in the van in the Mexican heat until we returned. They chose the van.

Our guide then took my partner and I on a short walk to a pavilion where we met a petite bearded man, assumably the shaman. He boiled a brew of water, herbs and literal sticks before pouring it into a tin can and passing it to each of us to take a sip. The guide explained that they do this as part of the formal ceremony but the concoction is a sweet drink children often enjoy as a treat. After taking a sip we were directed to close our eyes while the shaman chanted, sang and slapped our faces with a handful of leaved branches. Jarring considering we had our eyes closed. He then blew into an eight-foot horn for what felt like a hour before the guide asked us to repeat after him: We come to enjoy your gifts; we mean no harm. In hopes of the jungle accepting us into its belly for the afternoon.

Before we left for our hike, we were handed a harness and helmet, presumably for zip lining. And then a thick stick about the thickness of a patio umbrella pole. At one end it had another branch, making the whole thing look like a giant check mark. “What’s this for?” I asked naively. “For these,” our guide said after hitting a crude poster full of cougars, monkeys, rodents, spiders, birds and more. “If you see any of these, hit it.”

I thought he was joking until we started our hike and he looked like he was hiding from assassins, shoulders hunched, eyes darting left and right every second, knuckles white from gripping his stick and other supplies.

By this point in the day I had already experienced a rollercoaster of emotions ranging from fear to exhilaration, but all at extreme intensities.

“Don’t touch trees that look like this. It’s poisonous but the antidote takes about three hours to make and you’ll be dead before then.”

“Wait, which tree shouldn’t I touch?!”

Read part four.

Going Off-Resort in Mexico: Unsafe Climbs and Inedible Buffets

Um, what? You want me to get out on the side of a highway and sit on a bus bench to wait for a new tour guide? Suddenly my khaki-shorted pair didn’t seem so scary.

“No,” I declared in the firmest voice I could muster. “We don’t want to be left alone. You will need to wait for the tour guide with us or take us back to the resort.”

“Your tour guide is running very late today so he asked me to pick you up. He’ll be here soon. We can wait with you.”

Would have been nice to know, I probably would have rather waited for him at the resort but sure. 

Eventually, a white and teal-clothed gentleman arrived in a marked van for our tour. And I released all of the nightmare endings in a massive exhale. And there was another couple in the van already, an Asian couple who didn’t speak any English, and only a couple words of Spanish, we tried...

Unfortunately, that wasn’t the end of our troubles on this adventure.

The day continued with a two-hour drive to Coba, an ancient city of the Mayan culture that was the hub of commerce. Technically larger than Chichen Itza and free to roam and climb as you wish, it was significantly less crowded. We rented bicycles and our guide cautioned us that they had “Mayan brakes,” meaning they didn’t work at all. Plus it was pouring down rain. The guide shared so many amazing stories about the sports stadium, the homes, the granary, the town square. I’ll never forget learning that the winners of the no-longer-played sport “got to” sever their own genitalia as an offering to the gods.

Like many indigenous people of the time, pyramids were common and we got to climb the tallest one in the region. But unlike in the United States where everything would have safety signs and operators on hand, there was no railing, no safety anything. It was a little precarious, but we made it to the top and used a rope to climb down. So magical to be above the tree line of an endless jungle, to look out and see nothing but treetops.

After working up an appetite, we returned our bikes and drove to a little “restaurant” along the side of the road. After climbing and biking all morning we wanted to wash our hands before eating which was impossible because there was no sink in the entire building, not even in the “bathrooms,” which were holes in the floor like a port-a-potty.

Our guide explained that this was a buffet lunch, but that he liked the tomatoes. Just the tomatoes? Yep, he salted tomatoes and that’s all he put on his plate, sliced tomatoes.

If you know me at all, then you know I am a picky eater and texture matters.

As we rounded the buffet table peering at the unlabeled dishes, I began peppering my partner with questions: Is that hot? Is it cold? Is that cheese? Is that mayonnaise-based? What is that meat? Is that mold on the noodles?

He still teases me. But yes, we did get severe indigestion a few hours later. 

But before our diarrheal doom, we had four more hours of adventure.

Read part three.

Going Off-Resort in Mexico: Getting in an Unmarked White Van

We went to Riviera Maya, Mexico in September 2013 and stayed at the foodie, all-inclusive resort El Dorado Casitas Royale. We had a private suite with an outdoor shower, a day bed and a swim-up salt water pool with a bar and a hot tub. I’ll never forget the candlelit dinner on the beach, the coconut macadamia nut pancakes and the phenomenal service we received at the resort. There was plenty to do including a 5k to support the turtle sanctuary, games and activities, and classes and shows. 

But this post isn’t about the five-star resort. It’s about our adventure leaving the resort, one of the few times in my life I felt truly scared.

 

The Situation

While we did spend most of our time lazing around, stuffing our faces, and drinking way too many beach cocktails, we are not usually the beach bum types. So we knew six days of that would need an active reprieve in the middle. Our travel agent booked us a “hiking, rappelling, zip lining, swimming, canoeing” day in Mayan territory. We chose this particular excursion because it was less touristy than Chichen Itza but still explored some history of the native people plus added all of the fun activities.

We were told by our travel agent and again upon check in that on the day of our excursion we should meet the tour guide (who would be in white shorts and a teal polo) in the lobby of the resort at 7 a.m.

The Stumble

We got there early because, duh! But as we stood there watching each other couple get picked up by their tour operator, we started looking at our phones for the time.

7:10… 

7:16…

7:27…

Finally at 7:35, an unmarked white van pulled up to the resort lobby. A khaki short-wearing gentleman got out of his van, peeked at a clipboard and spoke my new last name. 

Every other vehicle that had pulled up had been wrapped in tour signage and all of them had white shorts and a teal polo.

I gave my partner a dramatic side-eye as I began to consider if it was really the right thing to do, claim that we were The Hendersons.

“He has a clipboard, and knows our name,” whispered my partner.

So we climbed into the white unmarked van with a stranger with whom we didn’t share a native language.

As we drove, neither the guide nor the driver spoke to us. After taking four years of basic Spanish, I could tell they were practicing English, which I thought was charming.

“Gato, cat.”

“Perro, dog.” 

“Caballo, horse.”

This went on for more than 45 minutes before I started checking my phone. We were going in the opposite direction of the expected tour. All my internal alarm bells blared and I started to panic. Silently I tried to not alert our captors. I started looking out the window at billboards and signs and, for some reason my non-panicked brain can’t figure out, memorizing license plates and cars near us. Why?!

My partner had of course fallen asleep so I woke him to help me panic.

After a few moments of imagining my horror movie ending on the broadcast news, the driver pulled off the side of the highway.

“This is your stop. Your driver will pick you up soon.”

Read part two.

Journeys to be Jealous of Is Now Striped Suitcase

As a celebration of 100 Instagram followers, I thought now would be a good time to shake things up here.

Besides the formal grammar error, Journeys to be Jealous of was always awkward to me. I spent hours and hours researching potential names for my blog a couple years ago and it felt like everything I could think of already existed.

But I didn’t want a lack of name to keep me from getting started. So when I found a domain and Instagram handle that wasn’t too close to anything else out there, I just went with it.

However, after almost two years of working with the long name I didn’t love and was always a little embarrassed by, this is now Striped Suitcase.

Why Striped Suitcase?

I’ve only posted a handful of photos of myself so you may not have noticed but I love stripes. I wear stripes multiple times a week if not more often than that. It’s a pattern that I can’t help but gravitate toward. My favorite clothing, bed sheets, rugs, mugs, and bags are all striped. My favorite musical is even Beetlejuice. This isn’t a new thing either, I have many childhood photos of me in stripes as well. Some things just stick.

I don’t always travel with a suitcase. My backpack still serves me well, or even a simple duffel sometimes. But my fancy-shmancy Away carry-on is beautiful and makes me happy.

I also can’t resist some alliteration. The Plaid Suitcase or the Striped Backpack just don’t have the same ring.

The new name is simple, easy to remember, shares a little more about me and my quirky self, and most of all doesn’t break any grammar rules.

Welcome back!

Lexington: a Surprising Hidden Gem

Planning travel during what is hopefully the last few months of a pandemic is hard. Not only are many things closed, but even if things are open, it’s important to understand what the options are if it’s busier than your tolerance or if the situation changes last minute. Add in an attempt to plan mostly outdoor activities and you’re also contending with the weather. 

I think it’s important to stop comparing COVID travel to non-COVID travel. Instead, compare COVID travel to sitting at home. 

Mammoth Cave National Park

Perhaps I’m getting to the point in my travels where it takes a lot to impress me. And perhaps I would have a different experience visiting Mammoth Cave National Park when COVID-19 wasn’t looming. But Mammoth was just fine. I’m from Ohio which isn’t all that different from Kentucky. So these beautiful forested trails aren’t that exciting to me because they look like where I grew up. But Utah was amazing because it was like visiting another planet. So if you’re from a desert or beach locale, these views may appear magical to you.

I was delighted to add another National Park to our list this spring and made much effort to get in the caves themselves, unsuccessfully. I checked the park website almost daily, called the park office three times, and checked the park social media handles regularly. Unfortunately they stopped doing guided tours of the namesake cave a couple weeks before we were to arrive. And almost immediately, the self guided tour slots filled up. I know that I can’t speak fully to the park without visiting the cave, but we did explore a few other trails and caves throughout. Sand Cave, Dixon Cave Trail Loop, River Styx Spring Trail and Green River Bluffs Trail were all just fine. There was plenty of parking at the visitor center, they were short, easy walks along the river, and we got to see all of the budding foliage as winter breaks for spring. No complaints, but nothing special. I’ll make the effort to return when I can tour Mammoth Cave itself.

Red River Gorge

In another instance of lots of effort but little pay off, I carefully researched hundreds of potential hikes in Red River Gorge and found a version of one that I was so excited about. We intended to start at the Swinging Bridge and head north to Cloudsplitter via Sheltowee Trace Trail and end up at Indian Staircase and Bison Way. But two miles into the nine-miler I planned, at the top of Cloudsplitter, lightning struck. Lots and lots of lightning. So instead of climbing down from the giant rock and finishing another 3 miles before turning around, we booked it back to our car amid rain and thunder. If it were just rain, I would have still enjoyed the whole hike, but better to be safe than sorry during a storm in an unfamiliar place. And before you assume I forgot to check the forecast, I did not. This was a surprise to us all out on the trail that day.

We did love the part of the hike we did get to do. When we come back for Mammoth Cave we will do this exact trail all the way through because it was awesome.

Hidden River Cave Tour

This experience was heavily dependent on the people in our tour group and the fact that we visited during the pandemic. Many, many screaming children and no one wearing a mask inside the waiting area was not a good start but we decided we could still enjoy the tour distanced from those families. While the cave itself is newly opened to the public (at least as far as we went into it), it’s mostly natural from water erosion throughout the centuries. The swinging bridge is neat and the domed rooms throughout are beautiful. But we decided to ditch five minutes early to leave the children enjoying screaming echoes and head back up the 250 stairs toward the surface. A nice alternative if you can’t get into Mammoth, but don’t expect anyone to wear masks here, including the employees.

Lost River Boat Tour

We were excited to take a boat tour of an underground cave river, but unfortunately with the rain the evening prior, our tour was cancelled. But I wanted to mention that customer service was excellent and we were given a full refund. 

Bowling Green, Kentucky

We had planned to get lunch before our boat tour and even though it was cancelled decided it was the best spot to grab lunch and take a midday break before our Hidden River tour. Bowling Green is delightful. As the home of Western Kentucky University (a gorgeous campus), BG offered an adorable town square and loads of fun local shops to enjoy. We all loved our brunch at Spencer’s Coffee (top five favorite breakfast sandwich for me), Mary James Chocolates, and Melodies and Memories (a rad 80s record store). If you’re in the area, definitely stop by.

Lexington, Kentucky

Okay, Lexington rocks. I had been a few times as a child, but we loved everything we did, saw, ate and drank. If you’ve read my blog before, you know I love a city with a little grit and grunge. Some history and personality. And boy does Lexington have it.

No exaggeration, we got one of everything at The Futile Bakery and all of it was so yummy! For dinner we explored a reimagined industrial part on the north side of downtown Lex. Wise Bird Cider had some delicious ciders, all of which were unique without copping to blending with other fruits. We got flights so tried 12 different items on the cider list which had almost double that available. We also loved the food with one exception: the chicken tacos could have used a sauce or crema. But the charcuterie and pretzels were good and the sweet cider barbecue sauce on the wings was like nothing else I’ve had. We also grabbed a few things from Ethereal Brewing as well.

As a consolation for our Red River Gorge hike ending early, we made time to stop at Le Petite Delicat and while the macarons were fine, the toffee was fabulous! I’d definitely go back to try the tarts and cronuts.

We started the evening at Bourbon on Rye where the burger was seriously perfection and the cocktails were bougie and delicious. However, the hipster mixologists weren’t wearing masks which was concerning. Not wanting to stay long for that reason, we grabbed a few rolls and sake from School Sushi a block away. The server there confirmed that West Main Crafting Co. was the place to be. I love a good cocktail bar and the literal book of a menu at West Main left me wanting to try something totally new, until I saw the perfect drink called Bird of Paradise: gin, lime, raspberry, soda water, egg white. All of my favorite ingredients. I’ll take two please!

Definitely better than staying home, but next time I’ll just tour Mammoth Cave and bum around Lexington. There is plenty more to see in both places.

I’ve explored Louisville previously, but anything else I should add to my next itinerary in Kentucky?

My Favorite Markets So Far

Markets are some of my favorite places to eat when I travel. It’s easy to find local, affordable food that usually supports the local economy, rather than a chain restaurant or a corporate grocery store. It’s the perfect place to graze on lunch, but also grab picnic items or groceries for meals later. Plus dessert, so many desserts.

North Market

Columbus Ohio

This is my home market, even within walking distance and I’m so grateful for it. Serving as an incubator for food entrepreneurs in the city, the diverse cuisine here is incredible. 

Granville Island Public Market

Vancouver, Canada

Many markets focus on food, but some also have local shops and art galleries. Many of these galleries even open the windows and doors in the warmer months so you can peek in and watch the artisans work. The friends I was there with particularly loved the pickle stand.

Pike Place Market

Seattle, Washington

As one of the main attractions in Seattle, Pike Place gets crowded. With loads of food like Beecher’s Handmade Cheese and Piroshky Piroshky, it’s worth going, just early.

Denver Central Market

Denver, Colorado

Denver has a few markets, including one in Union Station, but Denver Central has loads of amazing places to eat and drink. Plus with all of the cool art, you may find a unique souvenir to take home as well.

Leadenhall Market

London, United Kingdom

Built in an old arcade, the Leadenhall Market is an absolutely gorgeous spot to grab a bite. Mostly restaurants and stores, rather than the traditional food stalls and produce stands, you will likely spend a little more time in one place here, rather than wandering around snacking.

St. Roch Market

New Orleans, Louisiana

While I’m all for local food stands having their own branding, the St. Roch market offers a modern black and white vibe that is so dreamy. While you’re in town you should also stop at the Shops of the Colonnade - French Market as well. Love a good outdoor market, especially with COVID.

Eastern Market

Detroit, Michigan

Full disclosure, I haven’t been here yet, but it’s the market I’m most excited about exploring next. It’s massive and looks to have been a major contributor to revitalizing this neighborhood in Detroit. Have you been yet?

Borough Market

London, United Kingdom

I love a good train station or outdoor market under a bridge. I know how weird that sounds but this place is definitely one of my favorites. Breads, macarons, coffee, scotch eggs, smoked meats. I ate it all at Borough Market.

West Side Market

Cleveland, Ohio

As no surprise to anyone, part of the draw of the West Side Market is the architecture. There are tours here that will walk you around and introduce you to the cuisine, but also the owners of the stalls as well.

Chelsea Market

New York, New York

Manhattan is one of my favorite destinations and in non-COVID times, I try to get there multiple times per year. Chelsea Market is an easy stop to enjoy some delicious food including teas, spices, and actual groceries to take home as well as ready-to-eat meals. The market also has loads of jewelry, clothing and art which make awesome souvenirs.

Mercado de La Boqueria

Barcelona, Spain

Mercado de La Boqueria is one of the most colorful markets I have ever been to. While I don’t eat many fruits, I couldn’t help but stare at the mountains of exotic fruit and nuts. Add in three-foot-long hams and all the yummy smells, and you’ve got a happy me. Seriously, go here.

Faneuil Hall

Boston, Massachusetts

This market is actually a couple different buildings and some may know this market as Quincy Market. The whole complex has more than 70 retailers and restaurants so you’re bound to find something delicious.

Findlay Market

Cincinnati, Ohio

As the third of my Ohio markets on the list, Findlay is fun one to enjoy when you’re in town. I remember having delicious Indian food and grabbing coffee and donuts. It’s also next door to Rhinegeist Brewery if you care to imbibe.

I have a list of about to dozen categories I research when planning a trip and markets are always worth my time.

Video Games Inspire Travel

Gazing at the opening scene of Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild instantly transports me to Ireland. It may not be influenced by the rolling hills of the Irish countryside, but I can’t help but daydream when my partner plays that game. I know a major reason we are planning to visit Japan is because of Persona 5. So I wanted to make a list of other video games that are perfect replicas of cities you can visit and inspire travel based on the scenery.

If you like Assassin’s Creed: Brotherhood, visit Rome.

While the first two games in the franchise took you through fun locations in Europe and the Middle East, this was the first game that let you explore a single city and make changes to it’s real-life buildings and attractions like the Colosseum.

Cliche as they are, you should definitely visit Foro Romano, the Pantheon, the Colosseum, Piazza Navona, Trevi Fountain, and Via Sacra while you’re there.

The other games in the franchise could also inspire a trip: Assassin’s Creed: Syndicate to London, Assassin’s Creed: Origins to Egypt, and Assassin’s Creed: Odyssey to Greece.

If you like Persona 5 Royal, visit Tokyo.

This is probably the closest you’ll ever get to being a teenager in Tokyo if you didn’t grow up there. Persona 5 is a beautiful love letter to living in Japan, specifically Tokyo. You ride the subway to and from school, cook and eat Japanese curry and explore iconic locations like Shibuya Crossing, Akihabara, and Shinjuku.

Besides those three, you might also enjoy the Robot Restaurant, Godzilla head, Capcom Bar, Final Fantasy Eorzea Cafe, and the Ghibli Museum. 

If you like Watch Dogs 2, visit San Francisco.

While Watch Dogs 2 wasn’t the first to recreate a city in a video game, it was the first to do so in an incredibly accurate way. Since the game’s publisher, Ubisoft, is located in SF I imagine it was a fun passion project for that team to develop an almost Google-Street-View-like version of their hometown.

The Sonic Adventure 2 City Escape level is also an ode to San Francisco, after the Sonic Team moved to the U.S. Many games embody the cities near and dear to their developers’ hearts. So much so that it’s even become a trope to explode the Golden Gate Bridge like in the Avengers game or in Star Trek: Into Darkness.

If you like Pokémon Sword and Pokémon Shield, visit Scotland.

The latest entries in the Pokémon franchise feature the Galar region which is reminiscent of The United Kingdom, particularly Scotland. The rolling hills, localized slang, and gym battles treated like major soccer games may be subtle, but the female player character can’t be anywhere else in the world but Scotland. There are even a few new Pokémon like Scorbunny (a soccer star), Wooloo (a sheep), and Weezing (a Dickens-inspired Galarian version of the original) that give off British vibes.

Looking for ideas in Scotland? Check out Glenfinnan Viaduct, The Kelpies, Circus Lane, and my whole post on Glasgow.

If you like Tony Hawk’s Pro Skater 2, visit San Diego.

While the game has locations all over California and Canada, the titular skateboarder lives in San Diego and there is a major skating culture in Southern California. 

You have to do Coronado Island and Balboa Park or even make a day trip out to Joshua Tree National Park and Palm Springs. But the food scene is amazing in So-Cal so spending any time just gorging yourself isn’t a waste.

If you like Life Is Strange, visit the Pacific Northwest. 

Arcadia Bay is a fake town, but the flannel and forested mountains make me want to lace up my hiking boots and grab my reusable coffee mug.

My favorite spots in Oregon are Multnomah Falls, Thor’s Well, Butte Creek Falls, Bagby Hot Springs, Blue Star Donuts, Stumptown Coffee, and Ground Kontrol Arcade. Washington demands you explore Bellingham, the three national parks (North Cascades, Mount Rainier, and Olympic), Pike Place Market, and Woodinville Whiskey Co.

If you like Spiderman (PS4), visit New York City.

This particular iteration isn’t the only game of the franchise to recreate New York City, but it’s the best one that details the iconic neighborhoods like Hell’s Kitchen, Tribeca, and Greenwich Village. You can even wander around to visit some landmark’s from Marvel’s New York like the law firm where Matt Murdoch practices and Avengers Tower.

As for the real life New York, I can’t possibly share all of my recommendations in one sentence so please do reach out if you are looking for unique ways to explore the most populous city in the United States.

There are so many other games that can inspire travel. A few friends listed Hydro Thunder and Venice, Overwatch and Grand Theft Auto for a variety of cities, and even Red Dead Redemption and Bodie, California.

The reverse is always true as well. If you love a particular place but can’t get back right away, picking up the controller and playing one of these games may feel like you are back.

Note: This post was written with much assistance from my partner Andrew Henderson, co-host of Debate This, a nerdy podcast about video games and comics.

The Best Souvenirs Aren’t Tchotchkes 

There are plenty of ways to bring something back from your travels, but there are a few options that better support the local economy, environment, and culture that I think you should consider.

Local art

One of my favorite things to do while I’m wandering a city is to find a local artist painting or drawing. Usually they have a couple other pieces on their person that you can make an offer on. In Barcelona, I saw a watercolor artist painting and he happened to have a piece from Casa Batllo drying beside him. I asked if it was for sale and he told me it wasn’t finished. I said I loved it how it was and he said I could have it for 10 euros. It’s now part of a gallery wall in my dining room. It was small, easy to transport home, and now I have a unique story about it. I supported a local artist and I know it wasn’t shipped in from China.

Long-term functionality

Instead of buying something I’ll set on a shelf or store in a box, I like purchasing things I’ll wear or use every day or week. For example, in Edinburgh I purchased a cute pair of hexagon earrings that I knew I’d wear since my company’s logo is a hexagon. They don’t say Scotland on them anywhere, they are just a small pair of gold studs, but I know I got them on a trip and they can remind me of that adventure when I wear them to work. And when coworkers ask me where I got them, it’s fun to share the story. Pack light and plan to go shopping; you never know what fun stores you’ll find that aren’t available in your area.

Consumables

I always bring home food, drinks, and toiletries from my trips. I have discovered some of my favorites are only available in certain countries. Ahh, paprika Pringles! Getting to share these treats with friends when I return is a blast.

We have a fun tradition of getting together with friends when we return for a goofy photo slideshow while we drink wine from the trip. Nothing like drinking Croatian wine while viewing photos of that gorgeous place! We once brought home nine bottles of alcohol with no incidents. The professional strategy is to pack the giant Ziplocs with you. Each bottle gets zipped and rolled in it’s on bag, then rolled in by bulkiest sweaters and jeans, before getting packed in the inside bottom of my backpack or suitcase. You do have to check your bag on the way home, but it’s worth it!

As a way to save room on the way to our destinations, I also don’t pack many toiletries. We rely on our hotel or Airbnb to provide soap and shampoo, but if they don’t, we will stop by a local drug store to pick up a small bottle of whatever we need. And since we’re checking our bag on the way home, we just send those things home. Just another way to prolong the travel high if you are still using Japanese shampoo for a couple weeks.

Photos and writings

One of the best ways to preserve your memories is to take photographs and journal during your trip. Make time prior to leaving to learn how to best use your camera, make sure you have plenty of storage space, and pack a small journal and pen if you aren’t bringing your computer. Taking a moment to pause to get the shot just right, or take notes about what you are seeing or feeling in a place can be a beautiful way to continue enjoying your vacation long after you’ve returned. It also forces you to slow down and really take in your surroundings when it’s too easy to rush to the next museum or attraction.

Bonus: We love attending concerts when we travel. The absolute best souvenir is a song randomly playing years later from a band you first discovered abroad. Some of my favorites have even toured my hometown and seeing them live again brings me so much joy. The East Pointers, Stu Larsen, Krrum, Lavengro, Ian Britt, and so many more of my favorites came to me this way.

If you already have an extensive collection of shot glasses or magnets or ornaments from each of your trips, keep doing that. But if you don’t and are just looking for your next souvenir, consider a couple alternatives. Are you really going to use or display the item year round or is it going to end up in a box somewhere?

Hike Etiquette: Don’t Be A Trail Twit

Just like being a good neighbor or party host, there are certain unspoken rules of the trail you should know before lacing up your hiking boots. Not following these protocols isn’t the end of the world, but it’ll make your experience more enjoyable and will ensure those who hike near you or after you have a good time too.

Music and other noise

Many hikers enjoy the sounds of nature so respect their choice by silencing your cell phone no loud or long calls and get out of the photos. If you need to have music or take a call, I recommend just one ear bud so you can still hear what’s going on around you. It’s important to have awareness at all times when in the wilderness. You never know what’s around the corner. Sometimes it’s important to make a little bit of noise while you hike to alert wildlife you are coming. Most encounters happen when you sneak up on each other. A simple conversation with your hiking partner or music played on low will suffice. Others prefer a bell affixed to their backpack.

COVID-19 and masks

COVID-19 means more people are venturing outdoors for their vacations. That means the trails might be busier, so we still need to remember our urban social distancing guidelines. You don’t have to wear a mask outside if you aren’t near anyone. I like the ones I can leave around my neck so it’s handy when I see someone heading my way and I can quickly put it on. It’s also polite lately to face away from each other as you pass. 

Who has the right of way?

You should walk single file as much as you can, but especially when you are passing others. Trails work just like roads in America, traffic passes left to left in opposite directions, and you pass on someone’s left moving in the same direction. When you pass, do so at the widest part of the trail if possible. Be patient when hikers are working through technical spots.

In general, bikers need to yield to everyone, hikers yield to horses, horses yield to no one. A special note for passing horses, turn off all music, stay quiet and calm. Avoid loud noises and abrupt movement; leave as much room as possible and if you are on a hill, step downhill and let them pass. Most trail horses are chill, but they are still large animals and in turn are unpredictable.

All of this to say, it’s kind to let the group moving uphill have right of way too. They have a narrower field of vision and are probably out of breath. It’s also kind to smile, nod or acknowledge the other hikers in some way. 

Pets and other animals

Aside from horses on trails, many people enjoy bringing their dogs along. Unless the trail specifically permits off-leash dogs, your pup should be on a leash at all times. If they are off leash, they should be within your sight at all times. And you must pack out their waste, just like at home.

Do not feed wildlife. It can disrupt their normal ecosystems and encourage animals to depend on human food instead of their natural hunting or foraging habits. Keep your distance because even small and adorable animals are wild and may harm you. It may be with good intentions, but trying to help a hurt or baby animal left alone could be detrimental to them and you.

Leave no trace and pack it out

If you’ve been hiking at all you’ve probably heard of Leave No Trace principles. These are mostly common sense reminders, but unfortunately, some people really need these reminders. If there is a designated trail, stay on it. Do not trample vegetation, especially near water. If there is no trail, do not walk single file; spread out as much as possible to avoid creating a trail. Walk on durable surfaces as much as possible like rock, sand, gravel and dry grass. Don’t pick flowers, add, remove or relocate cairns (rock piles used as trail markers), and don’t leave carvings or graffiti. 

Don’t leave anything along your hike, not even compostables or biodegradables. Food items may disrupt the natural flora and fauna. I mention in another blog post how to relieve yourself if necessary.

In addition to these guidelines, you should also check the website of the trail you’re exploring for additional rules or changes to these standards.

Recreate responsibly and happy hiking!

How to be a better travel partner

Group travel is no picnic. Well it can be, but it will take a lot of coordination and communication to make it enjoyable for everyone and not just the leader or planner. 

Close quarters for extended periods of time and a near infinite number of decisions to be made can prove that you are besties after all, or it could leave you wanting some serious space when you return.

Whether you’re going somewhere with friends, family or complete strangers, the pace, budget, dietary needs, and must-sees are all things you should discuss before you begin planning. My travel questionnaire is a good place to start your conversation.

Plan wisely

Not every trip is meant for every group. Forcing your bougie friends to go backpacking with you probably isn’t going to end well. Vegas with your conservative parents, maybe not. Asking your friend who just graduated school to join you in Fiji, all they see is dollar signs.

Some trips are better for you and one other person while others may be exponentially more fun with a big group.

You can decide who you want to travel with and then plan a destination together, or you can choose where you want to experience and determine who would be best to join you.

Set appropriate expectations

Some people prefer spending their time lounging by a pool while others want to explore and stay active. Neither is wrong but if you both have your own preferences in mind when planning you may be disappointed when you find you have to compromise on the pace and activities of the trip. 

The same could be true about budget. Imagine spending hours pouring over research and finding the best hotel only to find out that your travel partner only intended to spend half that much. If you can have the tough conversations in advance of planning, you’ll save yourself some headache later. No one wants to feel guilted into spending more than they can afford.

You may have in your head that the best flight is a nonstop early in the morning, but your travel partners would rather do two long layovers overnight because it’s cheapest. Those are very different experiences so a discussion about value is just as important as budget. 

Communicate clearly

Depending on the length of time and personality types, some of your fellow travelers may need time to themselves. That very well may be a few hours in the middle of the day where you explore separately before meeting up for dinner. It could also mean you take a weekend side trip while they would rather stay put. But you have to be attuned to your own needs and communicate what you need as well as ask questions about theirs. 

Are there things on your list that are must-sees? Ask if they are on their list as well and if not and it’s still important to you, plan to check that one off on your own. Perhaps you’ll discover something new from their must-see list that you are newly interested in joining them for.

Be flexible

If you’re used to planning most of your own travel, letting someone else take the lead can be difficult. They may not be as detailed a researcher as you are but going with the flow and traveling their way may be a fun experiment. I just don’t recommend this for a bucket list trip. You’ll of course want to do that one your way. But for a weekend trip to a place you’ve already been before or know you’ll visit again, flexibility can make it fun.

Additionally, you may have the opportunity to try foods that aren’t common in your part of the world. Be open to trying not only new foods and drinks, but exploring the culture of the local people. It’s of course okay to be a tourist and take photos, but learn something about the history, art, literature, theater, traditions, fashion, music, etc. It can add magic to your vacation. But you have to go with the flow.

Generally, being a good travel partner includes knowing what you want and communicating that, and being considerate of the other travelers’ needs and looking for ways to accommodate them flexibly. Hopefully your travel brings you together, but remember that you can still enjoy a person and not travel well with each other.

Five Worst Travel Planning Mistakes

Travel planning can be exhausting. There are so many details that can be researched in order to ensure you have the best vacation, but it takes time to dig into all of that. Inexperienced travel planners can easily miss important considerations and forget about critical details. So as you begin planning your post-pandemic respite, make sure you do it correctly.

Don’t book the wrong location

COVID-19 changed travel so you may not be able to simply copy and paste an itinerary that was built in 2019 to your 2022 travels. Some countries have vaccine, testing, or quarantine requirements. Most cities and states have new rules about eating indoors, which museums are open, and if concerts and festivals can happen at all. Until we establish a new normal, you may want to hold on your dream trip. Shibuya Crossing in Tokyo, the busiest intersection in the world, might not be what you expect. However, it may be the perfect time for other locations that are normally packed with tourists where you can take advantage of perhaps a lighter crowd. Or perhaps an outdoor-based holiday will better suit you in the short term.

Don’t book the wrong season

We all have times of the year when we really can’t book travel like a teacher during the school year, or an accountant during tax season. But the time of year you can travel can significantly impact your trip. Consider avoiding the Caribbean during hurricane season. Maybe avoid Florida during spring break or Iceland in the winter. Shoulder seasons are my favorite time to visit a place and “shoulder” means something different in each destination. For example in Colorado, it may mean just before and after prime ski season. Or before or after the Olympics or cherry blossom blooming. When you are making your list of places you’d like to visit, also notate when would be ideal and when you’d like to avoid going there. I’m not really interested in the summer heat of 130 degrees in Death Valley, but I’d certainly visit in the spring or fall.

Don’t book the wrong time

I don’t have many regrets in my travels, but I do regret planning to be in London from a Sunday to a Thursday. Missing out on the weekend in a massive metropolitan city makes me feel like I didn’t quite get the whole experience. The reverse could be true of some destinations though. Visiting Yosemite National Park on a Saturday in the summer could be a nightmare of sitting in traffic instead of enjoying all the park has to offer. I try to plan my offbeat activities over the weekend to avoid crowds and hit up the major museums on the weekdays. Of course, that’s unless I’m trying to experience something spectacular in a crowd like a concert or festival. Even time of day can impact your experience. Hiking in the early morning means you usually get the trail to yourself. Getting a late dinner usually means you don’t have to wait for a table. 

Don’t book the wrong length

Each destination is different so 24-hours at Mount Rushmore may be plenty of time, but five nights in Marrakech might not be enough to explore everything you want to see. It’s important to investigate the location you are visiting and determine the things you want to do and see including day trips from your base as well. Finding you booked three days in a place you really just needed to pass through can feel like a waste. The opposite isn’t so bad as not enough time somewhere just means you’ll have to come back.

Don’t book the wrong neighborhood or lodging

Parallel to the length of time, it’s important to start with what you want to do in a place before booking any lodging. You may find that you’d rather stay closer to your daily activities, or that you prefer a hipper, more local neighborhood than that touristy one. The lodging you book may be impacted by the activities too. Some destinations are perfect for camping so reluctantly booking a hotel in a panic could be regretful once you decide you’re just going to be hiking in one particular area. Or once you realize the weather is going to be hot and you’ll want a daily shower, you might regret booking that primitive campsite for the entire trip.

I hate seeing people panic and book flights and lodging before they really dig into their research. It almost always leaves us trying to retro fit fun into that predetermined box, rather than building the trip around their interests. If you are seeing flights fill up, or lodging become sparse, take a few hours to research before actually hitting the reserve button. Or better yet, book your flight but do you research within 24 hours so if you need to change or cancel it, you’ll be able to without much hassle.

Regardless, all of this research takes time. You know where to find me if it sounds too overwhelming, or you just want to gut check with me.

How to get the most out of your  limited PTO

What if I told you that even with just 10 days of vacation time you could take vacations totaling 36 days? It just takes a little bit of advanced planning. 

Method to the travel madness

I know the way I do things sounds a little neurotic to even my closest friends, but it’s also how I travel so frequently. At the end of each year I make a new Google Doc that lists out every single day of the upcoming year. Then I bold the weekends so it’s easy to skim. From there, I mark which days my company has holidays. I pay particular attention to the holidays that back up to a weekend, like Martin Luther King, Jr. Day is always a Monday.

Then I start plugging in my destinations based on season, distance, number of days needed there, etc.

Traveling on major holidays like Memorial Day and Labor Day can be more expensive and crowded, but it may be worth it if you’re limited with the paid time off you earn from your employer.

Long weekends every month

If you took advantage of MLKJ, President’s Day, Memorial Day, Fourth of July, Labor Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years, you could take a three or four day trip every month of the year and still have a few days left over.

These long weekends can be just as refreshing as a week-long holiday except you can pack lighter, and there is less prep and planning to be away from the office or your home. You still get the pre-travel jitters and your friends still enjoy hearing about your plans and seeing photos when you get back. You just get to go to 12 times as many destinations.

Sometimes waiting for one big vacation feels great, and sometimes, I just want to peace out now. 

Where is good for a long weekend?

Maybe this isn’t your annual game plan since it’s harder to get to some far-flung bucket list locales. But for off years when you want to save a little money for that boat cruise around Croatia or the over-water bungalow in Bali, this might be the perfect way to explore your own country.

In non-COVID times, I employ this method about every other year. We try not to take big international trips more than every 18 months or so. But between big trips, we’re still exploring. My coworkers have even gotten so used to my monthly travel that they often ask where I’m heading next. 

Depending on where you live, you have lots of options for where to choose for your weekend adventures. For long weekends, I like to choose places no more than a five-hour drive or a three-hour flight. Any longer than that and I can’t arrive in my destination after work on the day I leave. If I have to spend half of Saturday traveling, then I really only have Sunday to enjoy because Monday I have to travel home. But if I can leave Friday after work, I can enjoy all of Saturday and Sunday before heading home Monday.

You may be surprised how many interesting places are within a short drive from your home. It just takes a little research. I have a short list of my own interests that I always research in addition to the typical restaurants and bars: markets, bookstores, libraries, speakeasies, museums, concert venues, comedy, art galleries/exhibits, parks, and board game parlors. There are always going to be unique things in that destination like the Bourbon Trail in Kentucky, whale watching in California, and a Salem witch tour in Massachusetts, but I also find unique versions of things I already love.

If you love a place, feel free to return, but I easily get bored so I love exploring new places. It’s almost always worth the risk of it being just okay. And even if it’s not the most thrilling place, now you know. And you’ll be glad you spent just a long weekend there instead of your whole year’s PTO.

Travel for work?

If you are lucky enough to travel for work, consider tacking on a day or two at the end of your trip. You may have time in the evenings to explore wherever you are, and your transportation to and from that location is taken care of. 

If you can schedule your work thing on a Monday, book your flight to that destination on Friday night so you can enjoy the weekend. Your employer will only pay for the hotel the nights you are actually supposed to be there, but it’s still worth it. The same thing works for Friday meetings as well.

And if you can’t rearrange your schedule, ask your manager if you can work remote the other days. For example if you have a Tuesday meeting somewhere, fly in (on the company dollar) on Friday night, explore Saturday and Sunday, work remote Monday and you’re all prepped for your Tuesday meeting. Plus you didn’t have to take time off to travel Monday so you’re actually more productive for your team.

Even stealing away to visit a museum while you slam a sandwich over lunch can make your work trip feel more enjoyable.

There are lots of strategies to get the most out of your limited PTO. You know where to find me if you want help.

Why I want Rick Steves to be my Travel Dad

If you’ve heard of Rick Steves at all, you probably think of him as a stodgy, old white guy who tells stodgy, old white people how to explore Europe. And I’m so excited to change your mind. Rick is a modern, open-minded explorer who only publicly focuses on Europe as a gateway to get Americans “to explore beyond Orlando.”

He was promoting a new book a couple years ago and if you read the previous post, you can guess that I love author talks, so I went to see him speak. Tickets went on sale for the Ohio Theatre which seats 2,800 people and sold out within hours. And yes, my boss did tease me when I had to interrupt a meeting to go buy my ticket when they went on sale.

I have to admit that while I was one of the youngest audience members, I was utterly enthralled.

An Outsider’s Perspective Of The United States

While Rick is from Washington, his career has taken him all over the globe, well beyond just Europe. His favorite places aren’t the thriving metropolitan cities of London, Paris or Rome, but the small communities that make up the developing world in South America, Africa and South Asia.

If travel does one thing, it changes perspectives. Often for the better, often making the world seem smaller and less scary, and often understanding that while it’s okay to have pride in your own culture, our differences around the world are worth exploring, learning and celebrating. That there is value beyond our own borders.

With the significant threat of nationalism around the planet in 2021, this concept should be considered often. 

“The only thing exceptional about us is our ability to think only we are exceptional,” according to Rick.

And I think that’s true. Even from a cursory browse through apps not predominantly American, I find myself watching videos of Canadians, Germans, and Indians who are not only aware of the challenges and triumphs of their own countries, but of those around the world. Many non-Americans seem to have an understanding of how interconnected everything is and how delicate. I would argue many Americans can’t name even all of our own state capitals, let alone know where the local politicians stand on issues that matter to them. 

Every Country Has Baggage

You can still have pride while recognizing imperfections. But blind narcissism is dangerous. 

I hear Germans addressing their sordid past. I hear Canadians recognizing indigenous lands they currently reside on. None of the individuals are responsible for the heinous acts, but all take accountability for their own education and actions moving forward. I hear people from many other countries point out problems and work together to find solutions. But if we simply think we are the best and there is no racism, sexism, homophobia, classism and bigotry, we are want to either stand still, or worse, regress. Awareness of weakness is the only path to innovation, equality, and peace.

National failures are a heavy burden for a society to bear. We often try to forget about it, or we make excuses. The healthy approach would be to address it, learn from it, apologize. Can’t we do the same for the baggage beyond our own? Wouldn’t the least apology be to return sacred lands to indigenous peoples? To offer reparations to slave descendants around the globe? To return ancient Egyptian artifacts to their home country? To offer refugees a soft bed and a warm meal when other leaders lose sight of peace? To offer forgiveness when someone who has done wrong has paid the price of their crime? To attempt to understand that people who are different than us may be acting out of fear or love, and not evil or ill intentions?

Rick reminds us that “a third of people around the world eat with spoons and forks, a third eat with chopsticks and a third eat with their hands. And we’re all civilized equally.” In baggage and in value.

Peace Comes From Understanding Nuance

Rick went on to detail a story about his time traveling in Tehran. He was sitting in a cab in traffic and looked out the window to see “Death to USA” signs everywhere. But then his taxi driver yelled “death to traffic,” and it dawned on him: “Death to the USA” may not mean physical death. The driver just used “death to” like we use “damn.” For example in the same way we would say “those damn teenagers!” Iranians might say “death to traffic.”

While I don’t mean to minimize or assume anything about the conflict between the United States and extremist terrorist groups, perhaps there are cultural things we must learn to understand before jumping to conclusions. And by the way, I fully expect that our State Department capably navigates this; I mean that as a culture, Americans could use some of that context rather than generalize everyone to be good guys or bad guys.

As Rick said “It’s in good style to get to know people before you go off and bomb them.” Rick didn’t feel scared seeing those signs, he used it as an opportunity to learn, not get defensive. The power in that is tremendous and brave.

The Danger Of Walls Between Us

We can talk of course about physical walls like in Imperial China, Berlin after World War II, and even the United States during the last four years. 

During his talk, Rick shared about the wall that divides Israel and Palestine even today. “There are 12 million people with incredibly diverse demographics. God sure had a great sense of humor to put the sacred holy spots of Jews, Muslims, and Christians all on the same rock.”

He spoke of the stark differences on each side of the barrier, and how it keeps younger generations from learning about each other, from each other. This baggage of hate is passed along to them and just like American children play cowboys and indians, these children play fight with guns against the other. 

We can agree that the physical walls are unhealthy, but the economic, cultural, and social walls can be just as dangerous. The less of a thing our children are exposed to, the more scary it seems. Demonstrating that happiness, love and peace can thrive in poor, developing countries, countries where people look differently than us, dress differently than us, eat differently than us, pee differently than us, read differently than us, is the only way to explore, learn and celebrate the value we all bring. And teach our children to do the same.

Supporting Developing Countries

As I mentioned earlier, the developing countries have a soft spot in Rick’s heart and is where he spends much of his time when he’s not filming Rick Steves’ Europe. The solutions he presents to improve the lives of our global neighbors are modern and refreshing. 

Rick said that women are the hope of the developing world. Empowering them with education, entrepreneurship training, and the tools to support their families can double any family’s income, and help a whole community thrive. 

No longer would they rely on wealthy countries to send food one meal at a time. If we empowered them to become part of the global economy they could thrive on their own. Help them build roasters to sell roasted coffee beans instead of green coffee, and grinders so they can sell peanut butter instead of peanuts. Advocate for local leadership instead of foreign intervention.

Even if you’re selfish, development aide leads to a more stable global economy and geopolitical situation, which is good for the American bottom line.

Tips To Be A Better Traveler From Rick Steves

  • Travel is hard, especially when you are only passing through a place and won’t have time to get comfortable. It’s okay to ask for flexibility, as long as you make an effort to embrace their culture. But you must return that flexibility when you return home and encounter others who may be visiting. Offer directions, speak slowly, recommend a restaurant. 

  • Climate change is real and global travel is not helping. Slower travel helps, spending months or longer in a place and then only moving by train or bus rather than fly to your next destination. But not everyone has that luxury. Perhaps we will in the coming years with remote work becoming more acceptable after COVID-19. But for now, buy carbon offsets.

    There is certainly more good than bad to travel, but Rick thinks the government should impose a climate tax to ensure we’re all doing what we need to maintain a healthy planet. He personally invests in offsets for his own travel and of course that of his film crews, but he also includes carbon offsets in the cost of the tour groups he leads as well. All of that in addition to donating more than $1 million to organizations that research and implement climate change solutions and smart agriculture.

  • Have an open mind. Try things you don’t normally eat or drink. You may find a new favorite.

I stand by it, I still want Rick Steve’s to be my dad. You can watch all of his shows, listen to audio tours, and even explore tools for starting conversations with children for free on ricksteves.com. And I hope you do. What a gem of a human.

14 Independent Bookstores to Add to Your Itinerary

Bookstores are usually a perfect meeting place when you’re traveling with friends, or even just taking a beat to quietly sip a coffee while you plan your next move. Here are a few on my list around the world and close to home.

Columbus, Ohio Bookstores I love

Gramercy Books

Bexley

Gramercy is one of the most prolific book stores in the Central Ohio region if only for what they do beyond selling books. They host author talks, a book club, and even a literary salon. A wonderfully modern, independent bookshop.

Book Loft

German Village

The actual store isn’t my favorite, but it has a cult following and is always recognized on lists of Columbus’s bookstores. However, that’s not why they are on my list. The Book Loft is on this list because of its Twitter account. The antagonistic snark gives me life and makes me chuckle every time I peruse.

Prologue Bookshop

Short North

I only discovered this gem because it’s close to my house, but they are kind, order me dozens of books they don’t keep in stock without giving me flack, and follow COVID guidelines. On a street filled with bars, be a bookstore.

Cover to Cover

Upper Arlington

I have a lot of friends with kids, and one of my favorite things to do is bring home gifts from travels for them, but if I don’t do that, and don’t have a particular title in mind, Cover to Cover is always a wonderful place to browse. They have thousands of titles with diverse topics all organized in a way that is easy to skim (We’ve all been to the children’s section where the thin spines in piles make you want to cry). I’m obsessed with the many options to expand our children’s worldview through reading like cultural festivals outside of our own, women empowerment, and climate change.

American Bookstores

Powell’s City of Books

Portland, Oregon

It’s in the name of the store; this place is huge. Like many in this section of the list, try to go in the morning and on a weekday to avoid tourists. Even with minimal window shopping, it will take you at least two hours to wander each of the department-store-sized rooms. But you needed something to do to get out of the rain in Portland anyway, right?

The Last Book Store

Los Angeles, California

As California’s largest new and used book store, this one also will take some time. They also have records, a yarn shop, and an art gallery. But I’ll be honest, a big draw for me is all of the fun book art throughout the space to take artsy photos of. Check them out on Instagram to see what I mean.

Strand Books

New York, New York

Iconic. Classic. Truly a staple of the Manhattan book scene. The Strand has been featured in many television shows and movies because of its austere at Broadway and 12th. If you’re into books at all, or want to impress someone who is, just visit The Strand.

Books & Books

Key West, Florida

I’m not normally into celebrity entertainment, but there are a few exceptions including travel and books. Books & Books is owned by famed Young Adult author Judy Blume! I hear she still hangs out there often so go buy her books for the pre-teen in your life and see if you can get them signed.

City Lights Booksellers

San Francisco, California

How could I not include Bay Area favorite City Lights? In addition to selling books, they are also a publisher of mostly social and political works of all genres. They host author events and even have a foundation dedicated to literacy.

Elliott Bay Book Company

Seattle, Washington

In a densely residential neighborhood filled with great brunch offerings, Elliott Bay is a bright little spot to pause after devouring bottomless mimosas. Their staff picks section is one of the best.

International Bookstores

Bed and Book

Tokyo, Japan

Admittedly, I haven’t been to any of these international bookstores yet, but I can’t wait to stay at this book-themed capsule hotel in Tokyo. In a city full of lights and noise, this quiet reprieve could be just the thing to relax after enjoying the hustle and bustle of the city.

Tehran Book Garden

Tehran Iran

One of the largest outdoor bookstores in the world, Tehran Book Garden is absolutely gorgeous! While my little nerdy heart worries about protecting the books from exposure, it’s still a magical fairy tale sight.

Libreria Acqua Alta

Venice, Italy

It’s Venice, and we all know that unfortunately Venice floods regularly. This bookstore creatively solved the challenge of selling wet books by putting everything for sale in or on shelves that float. Like gondolas and bathtubs. But be careful because this one attracts the tourists. Go when they first open on a weekday if you can.

Livraria Lello

Porto, Portugal

I get one “for the gram” bookstore and this is it. The store itself is small and there are always hoards of tourists, but the unique architecture make this a fun one to photograph. Portuguese tourism has blown up in the last few years so I’m glad I visited this quaint town when we did. 


Visiting bookstores and libraries is one of my favorite ways to explore a community while feeling like a local. It’s a way to pause in the rushing around from museum to museum and I always add a few to my itineraries.

Travel Health Hacks I’m Continuing Even After COVID-19

I took a couple trips in 2020. I know the safest thing I could have done was stay home. But for my mental health, I needed to get out of my house.

I took a long weekend road trip to Michigan. I took a week-long trip to Washington and Montana. And I took an 11-day trip to Utah. All three trips were exclusively outdoor activities like hiking, and takeout or cooking meals at our Airbnb.

I know not everyone will agree with our actions, but we isolated before and after each trip and distanced and wore masks during. We were lucky to have flights with as few as 15 people, but that isn’t a guarantee.

However, I also did a ton of research and planning to help make these trips as safe as we could. And honestly, I’ll probably continue doing many of these things even after COVID. How were we ever comfortable letting strangers breathe on us?!

How to stay healthy while flying during COVID:

Before you book any flight, research the safety protocols of the airline you’re considering (or just ask me since I’ve already done that research). Some aren’t selling middle seats; some are spray sanitizing; some are offering no-fee cancellations or changes. These safety policies are constantly evolving so be sure to check the dates as well. My personal recommendations are Delta and Southwest.

  1. The air on a plane circulates top to bottom, not left and right or front to back. So as soon as you get on the plane, open the vent above your seat, then once you get situated make sure it’s pointed right at your nose so that’s the air you are breathing the whole flight. 

  2. Most airlines are providing wipes as you board to wipe your area. This is mostly superficial since many airlines are also spray sanitizing and wiping everything before you get on, but it doesn’t hurt. I am sure to double wipe everything I plan on touching, including the seatbelt, the arm rests, the knob that opens the tray table, the tray table itself, and the window cover. If you get a second one or bring your own, I also wipe the seat itself and the headrest.

  3. You may not wear a mask with a plastic filter on most airlines, but you should still consider one with a metal noseband and that fits very snugly around your nose and mouth. I even have a few that have fabric carbon filters.

  4. Do not remove your mask for any reason. This includes indulging in the free snack and drink the flight attendant might bring you, especially right after they deliver the goodies as that’s when most people will remove their masks.

  5. Bring your own snacks and fill your water bottle at the airport after security. Many airport restaurants are closed which crowds the ones that are still open. If you must eat and drink between home and your destination, I have felt most comfortable finding a secluded spot in the airport directly below a vent where I can take my mask off to quickly eat and chug water. Be sure to hydrate and eat prior to leaving your home and have a plan to replenish as soon as you get to your destination.

  6. In addition to your mask, some sort of covering for your eyes may give you more peace of mind as well. I wore my simple blue light filter glasses, but some have worn lab goggles or the headband-style plastic shields like medical personnel wear. 

  7. This one may seem overkill, but unless you prefer to sleep, sanitize your hands every hour. This may dry out your skin so remember lotion as well.

  8. Because you’ll have the air conditioning vent on full blast the entire flight you’ll want long sleeves and long pants. This will also protect your skin from exposure as well. Be sure you change clothes when you arrive in your destination, and if you can, shower. Put on a fresh mask after your shower.

  9. Ideally you should drive yourself to the airport and park. Unless you can walk everywhere, you should rent a car upon arrival so you can avoid ride shares and public transportation.

  10. If you are the type to wipe down your groceries, you may also want to wipe down your luggage, handles, phone and other items you touched throughout your trip, even if no one else touched it.

How to stay safe while driving:

  1. Drive only with your household members. If that is not possible, all people should wear masks and roll the windows down. I did take a Lyft on one of my trips and the driver had no issue with leaving the window down even in chilly weather.

  2. Make as few gas, bathroom and food stops as possible and combine stops when you can.

  3. Bring food and drinks from home.

  4. Wipe down your vehicle before and after your trip. Even if it’s your personal vehicle; all our cars could use a clean anyway, I’m sure.

  5. If you are renting a car, drive with the windows down for your first few minutes to make sure it is aired out a bit.

How to stay safe when you arrive at your destination:

  1. While there is significant debate over whether a hotel is safer than an Airbnb, I personally feel better about an Airbnb simply for the reason that I can isolate from other people more easily. It’s difficult to keep distance when we’re riding in elevators and sharing hallways and lobbies. In the Airbnb, I can clean and sanitize the home when I arrive.

  2. Before you leave home, schedule a grocery delivery to your destination. Another reason for Airbnbs: when you can get groceries delivered and cook for yourself in the kitchen you can interact with fewer people from restaurants.

  3. I know take out food is never as good, but it’s safer than eating at restaurants unless it’s on a patio.

  4. Choose outdoor activities like hiking, rafting, skiing, climbing, beaching, etc. There are plenty of options, but make sure to practice outdoor safety as well like sunscreen.

  5. Wash your hands, bring sanitizer, swap out cloth masks every day (bring at least as many masks as you are underthings).

It feels like there are no hard and fast rules other than wearing a mask. Any of the above precautions could help mitigate your risk of catching or spreading COVID-19. 

If you’re nervous, I’m happy to share my own experiences and discuss the risks and precautions further. 

And if you’d rather avoid planes at all this year, I’m happy to brainstorm a road trip for you.

15 Shows I Binge While Travel Planning

I have this personal rule that I can’t come home from a trip unless I have the next one planned, and preferably the next couple. COVID-19 has obviously prevented that, but I’ve still got a terrible case of wanderlust. One of the ways I’m safely coping is binging Netflix and Hulu for all the best travel shows. Here are my favorites.


Traditional:

Rick Steves’ Europe

Amazon

I heard Rick speak a couple years ago and his travel stories fell into two clear categories: travel for work and travel for pleasure. But more than that, Europe and developing countries. Rick’s passion is clearly travel in Africa, Asia and South America. So why is he known exclusively for European travel guides? In his own words: Europe is a gateway for most travelers. My goal is to get people to explore outside of Orlando. Rick Steves’ Europe explores the continent he finds most accessible to Americans and shares tips and recommendations to make the most of your trip.

An Idiot Abroad 

Amazon

Ricky Gervais sends his friend Karl Pilkington all around the world just for the sake of making fun of him wincing at new experiences. Watching Karl struggle through normal travel would be funny enough, but Ricky goes above and beyond to force Karl into unique traditions and cuisine that make this show gold! I personally end up in gut-busting giggle fits.

Expedition Unknown

Hulu

Think Indiana Jones without the action fight scenes. The host basically takes legends or mysteries and digs a little deeper. Think Amelia Earhart, Temple of Doom, The Nazca Lines, Blackbeard’s hidden treasure. Not exactly stuff I would travel for, but it certainly gives interesting history and context to a culture or country.

City in the Sky

PBS

Okay, so this one is a three-part docuseries and I’m obsessed. It basically reveals the hidden inter workings or airports, planes and how we travel by air. I was completely fascinated and even watched it again a couple weeks later because I couldn’t stop thinking about it. The science and psychology of how everything is engineered is incredible.

Food:

Anthony Bourdain: Parts Unknown

Amazon

Twelve seasons of Bourdain traveling around the world to fairly not mainstream places to experience the food and culture. Bourdain’s shows center not the tourist traps but the hangouts locals love. This show focuses mostly on international, but includes domestic hot spots like Detroit, The Bronx, and Pittsburgh.

Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations

Hulu

Not going to lie, No Reservations is basically the same thing as Parts Unknown, but they aired on different networks and No Reservations was the earlier version. I’ve personally taken more than a dozen of Bourdain’s restaurant or neighborhood recommendations in my travels and I’ve never been disappointed. As far as I’m concerned, if Bourdain liked it, it’s worth adding to your list.

The Layover with Anthony Bourdain

Amazon

It’s Bourdain. We know it and we love it. It’s grungy, rough-around-the-edges Bourdain meeting up with friends, eating crazy food. But this one is also how much can he cram in 24 hours, hence the name, The Layover.

Ugly Delicious

Netflix

David Chang meets with his friends and chefs around the world. Each episode highlights one food or dish and explores all the ways it can be made and tweaked and how different cultures interpret it. Think pizza in Italy versus all of the different varieties in America.

Gordon’s Great Escape

Amazon

This three-part mini series takes Gordon Ramsey to India where he explores all of the incredible staples of the country’s cuisine, even the crazy stuff. Just imagine thinking “I’d like to vacation to India; I bet I can get someone to make a TV show about my trip.” 

Diners, Drive Ins and Dives

Hulu

This one might be where I’d start considering most of us are likely spending the next few months stateside. Guy Fieri is a saint and doesn’t take much credit for his philanthropic work, but he finds some small business gems around the country and always promotes how delicious they are. These yummy destinations are usually affordable and accessible in contrast to some of the above chefs’ restaurant recommendations.

Chef’s Table

Netflix

Definitely more food than travel, but Chef’s Table focuses on a different chef around the world and their philosophy on food. It started in 2015 and was interrupted by COVID-19, but we anticipate more seasons and spin offs are coming.

Alternative purpose but still inspires travel:

House Hunters International

Hulu

Totally not about travel, but seriously who wouldn’t swoon house shopping abroad. And let’s be honest, these are usually second homes which means they are also bougie as hell. While it’s certainly fun to judge people’s choices in fancy homes abroad, it’s also interesting to hear their stories of why they fell in love with the location so much that they decided to purchase a home there.

Down to Earth with Zac Efron

Netflix

Honestly, this was one of those Netflix recommended and I gave it a shot. It ended up being a thoroughly enjoyable jaunt around the world where Zac learned about climate change, food, social issues and so much more. Highly recommend the episode in Iceland and the one in Puerto Rico.

Planet Earth

Amazon

Some people love Morgan Freeman or James Earl Jones as narrators and while those are great, I prefer what my partner calls my “dad TV” narrators David Attenborough and Ken Burns. If you haven’t heard of the Planet Earth docuseries, where have you been? I could watch Planet Earth a hundred times and still never be bored with it.

Living on One Dollar

Amazon

Travel isn’t always about luxury lodging and visiting museums. Sometimes travel can be about experiencing the culture, what the locals experience, even if that isn’t always pretty. Living on One Dollar demonstrates what it would be like to love on one U.S. dollar per day in Guatemala. They certainly struggle, but they get help from the community they stay in and make it two months.

A special note about the above list: Did you notice that it’s all men? The travel industry has a long way to go in gender equality. I did want to mention Samantha Brown, one of the only female travel hosts. However, I find it difficult to access her shows on the mainstream apps so I did not include her. If you happen to have Discovery+ or are open to paying for her content on Amazon by episode/season, you should definitely check her out and follow her on Instagram.

I don’t usually spend that much time watching TV, so when I’m planning a trip somewhere, I’ll usually just watch the episodes relevant to the geography I’m eyeing. 

In addition, I also try to watch fictional or scripted shows from my next location, e.g. binging Downton Abbey before visiting the United Kingdom.

Do you have a favorite show or movie that inspires your travels?

16 libraries worth traveling for

Museums are an obvious category you research when planning your trip. The incredible architecture, history, art, music and more are all worth exploring. But you should also research libraries. 

Libraries are often perched in some of our communities’ most historic buildings, or are given flexibility to design some of the city’s most modern buildings. You might have the opportunity to view some of the oldest or rarest manuscripts, experience movie sets in person, or connect more deeply with a favorite writer or culture.

Many libraries offer exhibits like museums too, like presidential libraries which are almost always worth checking out. 

Visit these libraries for historical architecture:

Boston Public Library

Boston, Massachusetts

Free admission

While the entire building is filled with interesting architecture, the real gem is Bates Hall where the original tables and bookshelves are still in use along with the classic green lamps. It was meant to be a palace for the people in the late 1800s and it still feels palatial in 2021.

George Peabody Library

Johns Hopkins University

Closed due to COVID-19, but you can visit virtually

Okay, while the Peabody is now a wedding venue, it’s still technically a library. The 19th century architecture is romantic beyond belief so it makes sense as a wedding venue. The cast iron railings and golden hues make it a magical place to just stare.

The Long Room

Trinity College Dublin

$22, the Long Room in the Old Library at Trinity College Dublin actually comes with your admission to the Book of Kells exhibit, but I bought the ticket mostly for the Long Room.

While you can only walk about halfway down the center aisle on a tour, it's an absolutely gorgeous, moody library with the dark oak ceiling added in 1861, 129 years after it’s opening.

Real Gabinete Portugues de Leitura

Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

Free, but temporarily closed due to COVID-19

Time Magazine voted the Royal Portuguese Reading Rooom the fourth most beautiful library in the world.  Can you tell I’m smitten for 19th century gothic styles? But this one also fits in the below category of interesting contents as well because it is one of the most complete modern libraries of Portuguese literature as home to at least one copy of almost every book ever printed. It’s also home to lots of publishing and printing paraphernalia, all operational and viewable by the public.

Admont Abbey Library

Admont, Austria

$15 for a tour

As the world’s largest monastery library, the Admont Abbey Library was built in the Baroque period and boasts art and literature from the 8th century. It’s bright pastel colors exude the enlightenment it meant to convey.

Visit these libraries for modern designs:

Arabian Library

Scottsdale, Arizona

Free

While I am a sucker for super historic or hyper modern, it’s important that it blends well with its surroundings. The Arabian Library is a perfect ode to its southwestern location. The copper, glass and soft lighting are stunning. Plus, It’s LEED® certified and you all know I have a sweet spot for sustainability.

Seattle Public Library

Seattle, Washington

Free

Finished in 2004, the Central Library building has such unique geometry and its dark glass exterior and concrete interior make it worth the stop while you visit Seattle. So much natural light! It has capacity for more than 1.45 million volumes. The unique floor was even designed by an artist from Ohio. Insider tip: go find the hidden octopus mural on the 3rd floor.

Geisel Library

University of California San Diego

Free

Named for Dr. Seuss, it totally looks like it could be in a Seuss book with the top floors of the building large than the bottom, resembling a tree. Designed by the same architect as the TransAmerica Pyramid in San Francisco and the rocket-launching facilities in Cape Canaveral, the library is like nothing else, design-wise.

Binhai Library

Tianjin, China

Free

Affectionately known as The Eye, the library is part of the Binhai Cultural Center (southeast of Beijing) and was opened in 2017. If Gaudi had to build a functional library, this might have been one of his concepts in that it nods to nature in the fluidity of the floor-to-ceiling shelves. The up-lighting in dusk hours makes it even more interesting to look at. However, there are no books on the shelves because it’s not structurally sound, so what you see on the shelves are just printed images of spines.

Byeolmadang Library

Seoul, South Korea

Free

Like the Binhai Library, many of the shelves are inaccessible due to the design, but at least there are actual books on the shelves at Byeolmadang Library. Most of the books are in other areas than the main atrium which usually has art exhibitions and a speaker series. The library touts itself as more of a meeting place and what a fun one.

National Library

Minsk, Belarus

Free, but some attractions are a dollar or so

Another glass polyhedron that resembles a tree, the National Library building was completed in 2006. This one has it all though: a conference center, an observation deck, a gym, a book museum and four art galleries. Plus they light up the outside like a festive disco ball.

Biblioteca Vasconcelos

Mexico City, Mexico

Free

Also built in 2006, this library is made of steel, concrete, marble, granite, wood and glass. Major warehouse vibes, it’s known as a megalibrary with 409,000 square feet of space. Some structural issues caused the library to be closed shortly after opening but it was repaired and safe for the public again in 2008. 

Visit these libraries for interesting or rare books and artifacts:

Kurt Vonnegut Museum and Library

Indianapolis, Indiana

$12

While Vonnegut isn’t my favorite author, I happened to have a couple extra minutes while in Indianapolis for work so I decided to take a peek. It was a charming little spot and the docent even talked me through some of the artifacts and history. Unassuming and a fun gift shop with all of Vonnegut’s work for sale.

Library of Congress

Washington, District of Columbia

Free, but temporarily closed due to COVID-19

As the largest library in the world, The Library of Congress is home to some of the world’s oldest writings, even before books were invented (tablets from 2040 BC). You can also see a Gutenberg Bible and a rough draft of the Declaration of Independence. The library is currently lead by Carla Hayden, the first woman and first Black American to do so since its founding in 1800. The Library of Congress is also where you’ll find the U.S. Copyright Office and the National Library Service for the Blind and Physically Handicapped.

Beinecke Rare Book & Manuscript Library

Yale University

Free, but temporarily closed due to COVID-19

The Library of Congress may be the largest library in the world, but the Beinecke Rare Book & Manuscript Library is the largest private library in the world of its kind and even has temperature and humidity controls to ensure the books are preserved for generations to come. Unlike many of the modern glass libraries we see today, the Beinecke is made from quarter-inch marble that lets in only dim light. This interesting feature could also put it in the visit because it’s cool looking category too.

Bodleian Libraries

Oxford University

Tours start at $5 but temporarily closed due to COVID-19, visit virtually

Oxford University was used as much of the inspiration for the Harry Potter books and movies, and the Bodleian Libraries are a significant part of that. The Bodleian operate as a collection of libraries each dedicated to a wide range of different subjects including the history of medicine, islamic studies and ornithology.

Want help planning a bibliophile vacation? Bookstores, libraries and author hotspots are a favorite attraction category of mine so I’d love to help.

How to Plan a Hiking or Backpacking Trip

One way we can enjoy our time off from work this year is to spend time outside. That may mean a simple picnic in your local park, or it may mean a backpacking trek to a national park across the country. If your trip lands somewhere on the second part of that spectrum, there are a few things you can do to prepare for your trip to make it the most fun and stress-free.

Plan Ahead

Some of my friends love spontaneity so much that they usually just wing it. That’s a little harder to do with backpacking and hiking trips because you may need different gear, more water, or even a lottery permit depending on what trails you choose.

There are some incredible hikes around the world and if you have any FOMO at all, you should consider taking on one of them. While popularity might be a positive thing in most circumstances, coronavirus may impact which trails you choose. However, you can often still find a way to experience the best views while avoiding crowds.

Did you know that 90 percent of visitors to the Grand Canyon visit from the south rim? The north rim is just as majestic and you can find trails that are completely deserted, especially off-season or early mornings. Even some of the most popular trails may be pretty quiet at 6 a.m. in the middle of the summer. And bonus, you’ll miss the midday heat.

After asking friends and locals, I usually start my research on AllTrails where I can narrow in on a specific geographic area that I plan to visit. You can filter by length, difficulty and more.

Choose a hike

Based on my own fitness level, I try to schedule a big hike no more than every other day. For example for my Southern Utah National Parks trip, we did an eight-mile hike in Bryce Canyon on a Sunday, then waited to do a six-mile river hike in The Narrows in Zion until Tuesday, then waited until Thursday to do another six-miler in Arches. The days in between we hiked only two or three miles each day to rest.

But I’ve also done the backpacking trips where we only did one 22-miler in a weekend and just rested when we returned home.

When you’re thinking about how long you want to hike, you should also think about elevation. Not only the elevation gain throughout the hike, but the starting elevation compared to where you live. For example, you will likely travel much more slowly in Colorado if you live in Los Angeles because your body isn’t used to the altitude in the Rockies. To minimize this effect, you can plan to stay a few days in your destination before beginning your hike. 

Fun side note: Ever wonder why so many Olympic training centers are in the mountains? They train at the higher altitude (less oxygen) so their bodies can perform at peak levels in any environment.

A good rule of thumb for the average hiker is no more than 1,000 feet of elevation gain per mile. Any more than that, you’ll want to do a bit of training before your hike.

There may also be different weather to consider on your hike. Checking the forecast for the nearest town often isn’t indicative of the weather on the trail so apps like AllTrails can give you a better sense of what the temperature and precipitation might be at the trail’s elevation.

The location you choose to explore may not have cell service so it’s always a good idea to download an offline map or have a physical one with you to ensure you don’t get lost and can find your way back to civilization. I’ve hiked in a place legitimately called Desolation Wilderness and you better believe it was absolutely off-grid.

Finalize your hike

Always research the hike you are considering on the official webpage, be it the national park or state park website because it will provide details on closures, animals, and more.

You should research not only what animals you may meet on your hike, but also appropriate behaviors in case of an encounter. Some of the smallest, cutest animals can be dangerous, and how you react seeing a grizzly is much different than how you should behave if you run into a black bear.

Many popular hikes have a permit system where you may have to pay a fee to enter a lottery up to a year in advance of your trip. Mount Whitney is one example where almost 17,000 people submitted entries to the lottery and only 5,000 were permitted all summer. Some people enter annually and wait years to get the opportunity to explore that trail.

Certain parks may not allow private vehicle traffic to help with traffic and parking issues. They often offer shuttle services that may need reservations well in advance of your trip as well.

In addition to the trail’s official webpage, reviews on All Trails may also provide insights to any obstacles you may encounter like creek crossings, icy patches, rock scrambling, etc. This can help you pack the appropriate gear.

Pack the right gear

You don’t have to have all the fanciest gear to enjoy nature, however, depending on your dream hike, it may make your experience significantly more enjoyable and less stressful.

For all hikes, you’ll want a pack big enough to carry everything you need. Obviously overnight backpacking trips will need a bigger pack than a short day hike. I’m happy to help with a packing list appropriate for your trip, but here are some basics you may not have thought of:

  • I always love bringing a fresh change of clothes for when I return to my car. Fresh under things and warm, dry clothes are a luxury that don’t take up any valuable space in my backpack.

  • A water bladder instead of a bottle. It comes with a giant bendy straw that is much more accessible than your bottle, and it can hold way more. I usually share a three liter bladder with my husband and we rarely run out.

  • Add dry soap sheets to your first aid kit. You usually have plenty of water in your bladder and it’s a tiny addition in case you need it. Obviously we’re all carrying hand sanitizer for coronavirus, but friendly reminder to use that before you break for a snack.

  • It’s almost always a good idea to opt for hiking boots over hiking shoes. Invest in the comfiest ones you can find and you’ll only need to bring this one pair. I also bring a plastic shower cap that I can put around my dirty boots when I pack my bag so they don’t muck up the rest of my things. A plastic grocery bag works just as well. 

  • No cotton clothing. Look at the tags on your clothing and choose synthetic materials or wool. This is particularly important for your base layers like socks, sports bras, underwear, gloves and a hat because you’ll want these to stay dry or at least dry quickly if they do get wet (with sweat). Smart Wool is my favorite brand for hiking socks.

  • Avoid anything with a particular smell. Leave the perfume, fragranced deodorant, and hair products at home. You’ll already be piquing the interest of local fauna with your snacks and natural scent. No need to attract bugs any closer with your floral lotion. Another way to deter animals is to make noise along your hike. A simple conversation is enough, but some choose to wear a bell or play music quietly. Most animal encounters happen when you accidentally sneak up on each other.

  • Build yourself small emergency kit for any weather that includes an emergency blanket, band aids (moleskin works well preventatively), a whistle, a headlamp, and depending on your location bear spray. Keep that last item in an outside pocket of your pack, or even on your belt for easy access. Bear spray can be helpful for animals beyond bears so it’s a must have for me. 

  • Speaking of animals, if you are doing any overnight backpacking, you may need a bear canister to prevent them from getting to your food stash. If you do bring this along, prepare your meals and eat at least 100 feet from where you plan to sleep. Then change your clothes and place them with your bear canister before sliding into your sleeping bag for the night. No one wants to be a human candy bar in your tent when the critters come crawling around.

  • I usually go on airplane mode to conserve my phone battery while I’m taking a million photos. But I also bring an external battery that will completely charge my phone three more times just to be safe.

  • Dry sacks are so useful for the obvious use, but sometimes I use them to keep my wet stuff from touching everything else, or even as a cooler with a couple ice packs in them. Take a tip from my friend Shane and bring a hike beer.

  • For cold weather hiking you may want crampons or snowshoes.

Begin your hike

If you haven’t done much major hiking, there are a few tips that will keep you out of trouble. Most trails are well marked, however you need to know what to look for. You may only find formal signage at major crossroads, so being able to navigate the trail system can be tricky. And sometimes telling the difference between the trail and a wash (where the water flows after rain) can be hard. Firstly, you can watch for natural items that aren’t where they look like they belong. If you get to a point where you see a trail going in two different directions, look for big logs or rocks that block off one of those. It’s usually a cue from the ranger that that’s not the right way. Rangers also use cairns or small stacks of flat rocks to indicate direction of the trail in places without easy natural blockers like in snow or mostly smooth rock trails.

Nature calls

Sure, the great outdoors may tug on your heart strings, but any hike longer than a couple hours may also mean you have to relieve yourself along the trail. First of all, hikers are generally pretty chill about the situation so don’t be shy; we’ve all done it. Try to find a spot with a little privacy and ask your hiking partner to stand guard and ask oncoming hikers to pause a moment while you finish. 

It’s usually a better idea to urinate in flowing water or on rocks or dirt, not on vegetation.

You usually have two options for number two unless dictated by the park you’re in. You can bring a small trowel to dig yourself a six-inch hole and bury your waste. Or you can bring a Double Doodie bag that has special chemicals in it to solidify the waste that you carry out with you. In either circumstance you should bring your own toilet paper in two ziploc bags (one for clean TP and one for dirty).

You should always pack out any trash you create while hiking, but you can duct tape that silver poop bag to the outside of your pack and wear it as a badge of honor. You’re officially a hiker after pooping in a bag on a trail!

I’ve hiked hundreds of miles and done a few serious backpacking and camping trips. If you’re looking to stay socially distanced outdoors this year, I’m happy to help you prepare for your trip.

Travel Resilience: How to make travel fun even when things aren’t perfect

No trip is perfect. Ever. In all my years or travel, I haven’t been on a single trip that didn’t have something go wrong. You can read more about that in my Travel Nightmares series. It can be something as simple as I couldn’t find a restaurant I was into, or something as big as the Airbnb we booked wasn’t uninhabitable. I’ve gotten a flat tire in the middle of nowhere, been lost in very busy traffic, missed flights and museum reservations, ruined entire suitcases of clothes, ended up a block from a major riot, and so much more.

But like in life, you have to figure out a way to address the situation and move forward. Your attitude can make all the difference as you solve the problem and enjoy the rest of your vacation. You can recover from almost anything. So here are a few examples and what to do to make the most of it.

Missed your flight?

If you’re at the airport, visit the nearest same airline desk agent to ask for help. They may be able to assist you right there, or they can point you in the direction of someone who can. Speaking to a person live is usually better than calling the help center of your airline. 

If it’s your fault you missed the flight or forces of nature, you will need to pay for the newly booked flight out of your own pocket. But if it’s the airline’s fault, they should cover the fare of the new flight and any additional costs you might incur like a hotel room overnight, meal vouchers, and ground transportation transfers. 

Mildly stressful because you may miss out on a few hours of relaxation, but in the end, it’s not a big deal. At least you can still go.

Car troubles?

If it’s an accident or a breakdown, it’s best to stop and get out of the vehicle to assess the problem. Take a breath and consider your options.

Check to see if your or the rental car’s insurance company covers a tow truck or roadside service. Call a local repair shop to see if they can assist you or if they know someone who can.

Luckily when this happened to us, we were traveling with friends in another vehicle who helped us change the tire and followed us to a local repair shop to purchase a new one.

If it’s something less scary, like you’re simply lost in the medina of an international city where you aren’t as familiar with the road signs, try to pull off the road and regroup before continuing driving. This happened to us in Seville, Spain while trying to find our Airbnb. I had printed out and studied all of the Spanish road signs, but those one-way, narrow streets were super confusing. We ended up having a bunch of locals yelling at us in Spanish and trying to help, but we only knew derecha and izquierda (right and left respectively), and with bicyclists ramming their front tires into our back bumper, we were a little flustered. So after making a 57-point turn to get out of that particular intersection, we found a spot to pull off out of the way and regroup. We actually ended up calling our Airbnb host who was awesome enough to come to where we were parked, got in the front seat of our car, and directed us to the parking garage.

Unworkable lodging?

We’ve all been to the grubby hotel or Airbnb in a less than stellar neighborhood. Most of the time we can make it work but if you get into a place you just can’t be comfortable sleeping, don’t force it. You need a good night’s sleep to enjoy the rest of your vacation tomorrow and beyond. Sometimes the hotel can swap rooms, or Airbnb customer service can help you find something else. It may take a few minutes and it’s always a little nerve-wracking telling someone else you’re unhappy and need them to fix it for you, but it’s worth it. And that’s part of their job. Most of the time, the host or hotel would rather have you speak up so they can resolve the issue than have you write a bad review or tell your friends and family how awful it was. 

I bailed on an Airbnb recently and was so glad I was able to find something else last minute rather than suffer through the bad experience.

Health issues?

Before you leave ensure you have health insurance that will cover you and your travel partners in case you get sick or injured on your trip. You may be doing adventurous things or eating strange foods not part of your normal routine so there is a higher likelihood of something going wrong. You should always bring basic medications like ibuprofen, allergy medicine, Tums, band aids, and more with you for minor things. But you should also memorize the 9-1-1 equivalent in the place you are visiting, and know how to find a pharmacy (often in Europe they are denoted by a green cross). I once had to ask for medication for some sinus gunk in Portugal and it was certainly an interesting experience. Medications in other countries are different than the States so be sure to check the dosage and instructions. And don’t be alarmed if the pills have a sweet candy-like coating on them. 

The experience you booked sucked?

Sometimes the concert, museum or excursion you booked just plain stinks. That happens. Not everything can be awe-inspiring or epic. If everything is a 10 out of 10, nothing is. Reframe it in your head as a now you know. I once thought parasailing was going to be exhilarating and it was boring. Now I know that that’s not for me. We once went to a concert at Red Rocks Amphitheater and it was a major fail. If I ever go again, I’ll change how I approach the day so I can prevent the bad parts.

And for me, I always consider that now I can help you have more positive experiences because of my own struggles. With proper planning and a good attitude, travel mishaps can go from a complete disaster to just a good story to tell when you return.